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I am so very sorry to read of the sudden passing of Moonshine. She was beautiful and with you for too short a time. We lost our Angel Jack very similarly and its beyond heartbreaking to have them pass in your arms. Again, so very sorry.

Kyle with Stewie ('Super C Ledoux, Super C Sampson x Sing It Blondie) and forever missing my three angels, Jack ('Roy Jack', Greys Flambeau x Miss Cobblepot) and Charlie ('CTR Midas Touch', Leo's Midas x Hallo Argentina) and Shelby ('Shari's Hooty', Flying Viper x Shari Carusi) running free across the bridge.

Gus an coinnich sinn a'rithist my boys and little girl.

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I am so very sorry. I can't even imagine going through that, and she was so young. My deepest condolences. :grouphug Going to love on my dogs extra right now.

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Jen, CPDT-KA with Zuri, lab in a greyhound suit, Violet, formerly known as Faith, Skye, the permanent puppy, Cisco, resident cat, and my baby girl Neyla, forever in my heart

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So sorry for your loss :brokenheart

Annette, mom to Banjo (AJN Spider Man) & Casey (kitty), wife to Roy. Mom to bridgekids: Wheat (GH), Icabod (GH), Scarlett (Cab's Peg Bundy), Rhett (Kiowa Day Juice), Dixie (Pazzo Dixie), Pogo/Gleason (Rambunctious), and Miriam (Miriam of Ruckus) and Spooky, Taffy, Garfield, & Lefty (kitties)

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What an awful thing to happen to your beautiful Moonshine. It was probably a burst aneurysm or or an undetected fracture in a neck vertebra; none of which you could be blamed for in any way, nor do anything about. But what a wonderful time she had with you... it's quality, not quantity that always matters most.

Let those healing tears of grieving flow freely now and one day, when you're ready, teach all that you learned from her to your next ex-racer; that way lies gratitude for sharing a life and certain hope of continuity.

 

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We are all very sad for you and with you. What a loss. So sorry. She was being a dog, happy and vibrant and with her people. Try to remember all that joy she packed in, in such a short time with you. They are never with us long enough, be kind to yourselves.

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10 year old "Ryder" CR Redman Gotcha May 2010
12.5 year old Angel "Kasey" Goodbye Kasey Gotcha July 2005-Aug 1, 2015

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I'm so sorry. Godspeed Moonshine, you had such a loving family. I've also had a sudden loss, I know how hard they are, take care of yourselves.

Beth, Petey (8 September 2018- ), and Faith (22 March 2019). Godspeed Patrick (28 April 1999 - 5 August 2012), Murphy (23 June 2004 - 27 July 2013), Leo (1 May 2009 - 27 January 2020), and Henry (10 August 2010 - 7 August 2020), you were loved more than you can know.

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I am glad that you came here to tell us about your beautiful girl. I am so terribly sorry for your sudden loss, and thankful that you were with Moonshine at the end. She needed her people and you were there for her. Please take care of yourselves and know that you are not alone in your grief. :grouphug

 

Godspeed Moonshine.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Godspeed, Moonshine.

Sorry for butchering the english language. I try to keep the mistakes to a minimum.

 

Nadine with Paddy (Zippy Mullane), Saoirse (Lizzie Be Nice), Abu (Cillowen Abu) and bridge angels Colin (Dessies Hero) and Andy (Riot Officer).

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My heart is breaking for you. Please know that I have many greyhounds at the bridge including one that suddenly went down paralyzed as what happened to Moonshine. They have taught me one of the most important lessons of my life and it is that you must understand there was nothing anybody could do to prevent it. It was just her time. If it wouldn't have happened that way then it would have happened another way. And in time I hope you learn the truth of how she WILL be with you ALWAYS for it will bring you great peace. Love is energy- the most powerful force in the universe and it cannot be destroyed-not even by death. Please be open minded as Moonshine may send you some signs to let you know all is well-she may even pick another hound for you. You will know if it is from her because you will recognize her energy-her spirit-which is the real Moonshine that you love. Some signs can be quite profound and moving. And BTW thats another thing my bridge angels taught me- the dog picks you not vice versa. :grouphug

"For love is as strong as death....
Many waters cannot quench love, nor can the floods drown it.
If a man would give for love all the wealth of his house, it would be utterly despised."

-Song of Solomon 8:6-7


"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
"What we have enjoyed we can never lose…All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."-Helen Keller

 

The Way

In the darkness I turned to go; my last day's

done; I'll miss you so. No time even to say

goodbye or to lock the tears spilling from

your eyes.

That's when I heard you call my name;

I knew right then I must turn back to help ease your pain.

Since I've no voice with which to speak,

its whispers in your dreams I'll make.

Ease your heart and rest your mind, my

time with you was the best of kind. I couldn't

have asked for a better friend, we've shared

our journey to the very end.

There's one final thing you need to know, I'll

whisper in your ear before I go....."I'm leaving

first to find the way...so I can lead you back here with me on your last day." -(SLong)

 

:f_red:f_pink :f_pink :f_red:gh_run

 

 

 


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I have added Monnshine's name to the list of Bridge Angels in the Remembrance section here. Your girl is in good company. :grouphug

 

Freshy (Droopys Fresh), NoAh the podenco orito, Rita the podenco maneta, Howie the portuguese podengo maneto
Angels:  Lila, the podenco, Mr X aka Denali, Lulu the podenco andaluz, Hada the podenco maneta, Georgie Girl (UMR Cordella),  Charlie the iggy,  Mazy (CBR Crazy Girl), Potato, my mystery ibizan girl, Allen (M's Pretty Boy), Percy (Fast But True), Mikey (Doray's Patuti), Pudge le mutt, Tessa the iggy, Possum (Apostle), Gracie (Dusty Lady), Harold (Slatex Harold), "Cousin" Simon our step-iggy, Little Dude the iggy ,Bandit (Bb Blue Jay), Niña the galgo, Wally (Allen Hogg), Thane (Pog Mo Thoine), Oliver (JJ Special Agent), Comet, & Rosie our original mutt.

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My heart is broken just reading about beautiful Moonshine. I couldn't be more sorry for your loss. She had to leave way too soon. You came to the right place to share your grief, and I'm glad you did. :grouphug

Mary with Jumper Jack (2/17/11) and angels Shane (PA's Busta Rime, 12/10/02 - 10/14/16) and Spencer (Dutch Laser, 11/25/00 - 3/29/13).

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I'm so unspeakably sorry. I can't even imagine how devastating it must be to lose a youngster so suddenly.

 

She was a special girl and was clearly much loved.

 

Godspeed Moonshine.

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Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24)

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Everyone, again, thank you. As someone, who hasn't cried or really understood how to grieve properly in over 10 years this process has been completely foreign to me, but the support you, my coworkers, and family has provided has really helped my wife and me.

 

We have contacted the same adoption group that we adopted Moonie from, and will be going this weekend. My wife and I know it sounds crazy, but something had us both tell each other that we should start looking again almost simultaneously without us talking to each other about it over the course of the day. I'm not someone who has strong views on the afterlife, but I feel like it was the memory of Moonshine letting us know that the only way to truly honor her memory and continue healing is to find another baby who needs a home and transfer that love we were showering her with to another grey.

 

Maybe we're both crazy doing this so soon, but to us this is the first thing that has made complete sense in the past few days. I'll be back with an introduction of a new grey to the family as soon as the pup that Moonshine picks finds his or her way into our home. Thanks everyone.

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What an awful shock. I'm sorry for your loss. Godspeed, sweet girl.

Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in Illinois
We miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10.

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How awful. I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

...............Chase (FTH Smooth Talker), Morgan (Cata), Reggie (Gable Caney), Rufus
(Reward RJ). Fosters check in, but they don't check out.
Forever loved -- Cosmo (System Br Mynoel), March 11, 2002 - October 8, 2009.
Miss Cosmo was a lady. And a lady always knows when to leave.

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:f_white I am so very sorry for your sudden loss - what a horrible shock it must have been. So pleased to hear that both you and your wife feel that you want to investigate adopting again soon. As you say that will be both a kind and a practical way of honouring Moonshine's memory, and healing your own hearts.

Clare with Tiger (Snapper Gar, b. 18/05/2015), and remembering Ken (Boomtown Ken, 01/05/2011-21/02/2020) and Doc (Barefoot Doctor, 20/08/2001-15/04/2015).

"It is also to be noted of every species, that the handsomest of each move best ... and beasts of the most elegant form, always excel in speed; of this, the horse and greyhound are beautiful examples."----Wiliam Hogarth, The Analysis of Beauty, 1753.

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Your insight and eloquence even during this time of such unbearable sadness are something that is touching to see. Yes, we are lucky to have our dogs, and your precious Moonshine was lucky to have you. I'm so very sorry that she was taken from you so young, but they live in the moment, and her time with you was filled with love.

 

Looking into the eyes of another Greyhound who needs you will help your hearts to heal, and will honor your sweet girl.

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Missing Lacey, Patsy, Buster, my heart dog Nick, Winnie, Pollyanna, Tess, my precious Lydia, Calvin Lee, my angel butterfly Laila, and kitties Lily, Sam and Simon
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I am truly sorry to read about your sudden loss. Words cannot describe how heartbreaking it feels to lose a member of the family - because that is what they are. They are so much more than just a dog.

I hope she has made some friends over rainbow bridge. RIP xxxx

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