Guest jackjack Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) Sadly, we lost our boy Dave today. We adopted all three of our boys in 2005, and Dave's passing mark the end of an era for me. Our other two orignal boys (Jack and Stuey) both passed away in 2011. Between 2005 and 2006, I came to embrace the GRA and GreyTalk communities. There are so many wonderful people here, and I've learned a lot over the years. On December 27th, we found out Dave had cancer. We had noticed a lump on his right elbow a few days before, but he wasn’t limping or in any other sort of pain that we could see. According to our vet, his tumor seemed to be originating from connective tissue (thankfully not osteosarcoma). We decided to have it removed and pathology done to find out exactly what we were dealing with and how best to move forward. Our vet was hopeful since this type of cancer sometimes stays localized to the initial tumor site. This morning, Dave went into cardiac arrest during his surgery and died on the operating table. I am in complete shock, and still can’t believe that I’ll never see my big gentle boy again. I’m also feeling very guilty. He might have had a much longer life had we not rushed into surgery. We brought Dave home December 25th, 2005. At that time, DH and I were volunteering regularly at the GRA kennel, and I had come to like Dave. We already had two greyhounds (Jack and Stuey), and Lewis didn’t think we needed a third dog. I’m not sure how (or why) he gave in, but at a GRA Christmas morning brunch at Bill’s, Dave was presented to me wearing a big red bow. I’ll never forget that. Even though Dave didn’t have Jack’s spunky personality or Stuey’s endearing shyness, I always lovingly referred to Dave as the dog with the ‘steadiest’ personality (of any breed) I’d ever known. Nothing phased Dave. He let Jack throw tantrums with little more reaction than an eye roll, and he let Stuey hide behind him when he was scared (which was often). Dave raced at 85 pounds, and was one of the biggest greyhounds I’ve met (and I’ve met many). Yet, he was as laid back as they come – one of the most unflappable and gentle dogs I’ve ever known. In September, we introduced LenE (E's Seward - barely 2yrs old) into our home. Our hope was that Dave would show him the ropes. Over the past few months, Len has settled in beautifully. I’d like to think Dave’s calm presence was partially responsible for that. Rest well, my dear sweet friend. It’s been wonderful to have known and loved you over the past 7 years. I’m sure Jack and Stuey were there to meet you at the bridge. Photo taken by Dana (Mecki) in 2011 Edited January 4, 2013 by jackjack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schultzlc Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so very sorry for the loss of your handsome Dave. Quote Laura, mom to Luna (Boc's Duchess) and Nova (Atascocita Venus).Forever in my heart, Phantom (Tequila Nights) and Zippy (Iruska Monte). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenbo Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so sorry. Godspeed, Dave Quote Camp Broodie with tuxedo Summer 12 and tuxedo Dio 6 Missing KC Kitty 2000-2016, Myka and part of my heart 2006-2020, and Saint YellBoy 2014-2020 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
45MPHK9 Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. Quote Tricia with Kyle, our senior mutt dog Always missing Murray Maldives, Bee Wiseman, River, Hopper, Kaia, and Holly Oaks Holly“You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows.“ -Bob Dylan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatterseaBrindl Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 So very sorry Dave had to leave you. Remember the good times..... Quote Nancy...Mom to Sid (Peteles Tiger), Kibo (112 Carlota Galgos) and Joshi. Missing Casey, Gomer, Mona, Penelope, BillieJean, Bandit, Nixon (Starz Sammie), Ruby (Watch Me Dash) Nigel (Nigel), and especially little Mario, waiting at the Bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Vers Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Dave was stunningly handsome, and so fortunate to be loved by you. I was just saying to a neighbor earlier this week, the bigger the dog, the sweeter -- and your Dave sounds like a shining example of that. I am deeply sorry for your loss, and that it was so sudden. Wishing peace for your heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnF Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Sorry to read of your sad loss. Please don't beat yourself up over your choice to opt for surgery .... it was just fate and he has been spared the miseries of very old age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robinw Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so sorry, Shelly Quote Xavi the galgo and Peter the cat. Missing Iker the galgo ?-Feb.9/19, Treasure (USS Treasure) April 12/01-May 6/13, Phoenix (Hallo Top Son) Dec.14/99-June 4/11 and Loca (Reko Swahili) Oct.9/95 - June 1/09, Allen the boss cat, died late November, 2021, age 19. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PiagetsMom Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so very sorry that you've lost your beautiful boy - Dave was well loved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seattlegreygirl Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so sorry - Godspeed, Dave! Quote http://divahound.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Time4ANap Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Run pain-free Dave. Quote Camp Broodie. The current home of Mark Kay Mark Jack and Gracie Kiowa Safe Joan. Always missing my boy Rocket Hi Noon Rocket, Allie Phoenix Dynamite, Kate Miss Kate, Starz Under Da Starz, Petunia MW Neptunia, Diva Astar Dashindiva, and LaVida I've Got Life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remolacha Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mychip1 Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss.....and I have been there with the guilt of electing to do surgery (for a corn) that ulitmately resulted in the loss of a beloved hound.....Please do not let it eat you up.....try to focus on all the wonderful memories..... Quote Robin, EZ (Tribal Track), JJ (What a Story), Dustin (E's Full House) and our beautiful Jack (Mana Black Jack) and Lily (Chip's Little Miss Lily) both at the BridgeThe WFUBCC honors our beautiful friends at the bridge. Godspeed sweet angels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batmom Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Oh no. I'm so sorry for your unexpected loss. Godspeed, steady handsome boy. Quote Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in IllinoisWe miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rickiesmom Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Cancer only offers bad and worse options. You did what you believed was in the best interest of your boy. That is love. The problem was the disease, not your decision. My heart goes out to you. May you find peace in knowing all you did throughout your time with Dave, until the end, was done with love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheFullHouse Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so very sorry for the unexpected loss of your sweet boy. My heart goes out to you. Run free Dave. Quote Judy, mom to Darth Vader, Bandita, And Angel Forever in our hearts, DeeYoGee, Dani, Emmy, Andy, Heart, Saint, Valentino, Arrow, Gee, Bebe, Jilly Bean, Bullitt, Pistol, Junior, Sammie, Joey, Gizmo, Do Bee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Houndtime Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so sad and sorry for your loss. Sudden or expected; it all sucks. If only they could stay longer. Quote Irene Ullmann w/Flying Odin and Mama Mia in Lower Delaware Angels Brandy, John E, American Idol, Paul, Fuzzy and Shine Handcrafted Greyhound and Custom Clocks http://www.houndtime.com Zoom Doggies-Racing Coats for Racing Greyhounds Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dmt Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maryz Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Just heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry. Quote Mary, mom to kitty Rebel.Always missing Sherri (SO DELICIOUS) (12/6/2005-8/29/2018) kitties Marley (4/2000-12/3/2015) and Beady (4/1998-2/24/2006) and Dalmatian Daisy (7/25/1984-5/13/1999). The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not - Thomas Jefferson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hubcitypam Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 :grouphug I have missed you being around here and and am so sorry about Dave. ...and one more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante2zoe Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so very sorry. I, too, have lost one after a surgical procedure. The suddenness can be overwhelming. Quote Cindy with Miss Fancypants, Paris Bueller, Zeke, and Angus Dante (Dg's Boyd), Zoe (In a While), Brady (Devilish Effect), Goose (BG Shotgun), Maverick (BG ShoMe), Maggie (All Trades Jax), Sherman (LNB Herman Bad) and Indy (BYB whippet) forever in my heart The flame that burns the brightest, burns the fastest and leaves the biggest shadow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyPoopon Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I'm so very sorry. I hope you realize that you did what was best for Dave. I wish he could have stayed longer. Godspeed Dave. Quote Standard Poodle Daisy (12/13) Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaineysMom Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 I am so very sorry :cry1 we make our choices out of love and by doing so, make only the best decisions. Please don't second-guess yourself, know that you made the right one. My heart goes out to you. This is never easy. Quote Kim and Bruce - with Rick (Rick Roufus 6/30/16) and missing my sweet greyhound Angels Rainey (LG's Rainey 10/4/2000 - 3/8/2011), Anubis (RJ's Saint Nick 12/25/2001 - 9/12/12) and Zeke (Hey Who Whiz It 4/6/2009 - 7/20/2020) and Larry (PTL Laroach 2/24/2007 - 8/2/2020) -- and Chester (Lab) (8/31/1990 - 5/3/2005), Captain (Schipperke) (10/12/1992 - 6/13/2005) and Remy (GSP) (?/?/1998 - 1/6/2005) at the bridge"Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut." -- Ernest Hemmingway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cully Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Run free sweet baby. Quote waiting at the bridge Connie Van Teddy & Jojo, Cobra Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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