GreyTzu Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I said good-bye to a cat that has been in my adult life the longest. It was the most heart-wrenching decision concerning a pet that I have ever made. Aggadore is the only pussy, cat that I ever bought. He was a Siamese Manx with gorgeous blue eyes. In 1996, a casual co-worker friend at the nuke plant had the litter and I told her I wanted one. She was a very careless person concerning her animals, despite being an AKC licensed judge, and said she was selling them for $50.00. No problem as I had wanted a Manx for a long time. Manx cats and polydactyl cats were a passion of my close friend Laura when she was living. She and I always wanted a Manx, polydactyl cat, all rolled into one. While she did some limited selective breeding with her barn cats, we never achieved the goal. FYI, her husband was a Vet and any kittens were "fixed" and placed in appropriate homes!!! After Laura's death, I had a few cats, but never really found a good companion housecat. Aggadore seemed to fit the bill. I never had any intentions to breed him and he was neutered as soon as age appropriate. And yes, the person I bought him from asked me several times if she could breed to him again. Idiot!! Anyone know where is name comes from? Yes, Agador Spartacus was the name of the Guatemalan houseboy played by Hank Azaria in The Birdcage. Awesome movie and popular about the time I got Aggadore. I changed the spelling because, you know, I am that kind of gal! In hindsight, perhaps naming him after a cross-dressing gay guy was not the best idea I ever had. Or perhaps it was foretelling. While his name was Aggadore, when he was a kitten I frequently called him Aggador-able Sparta-kissable. Of course there were other names for him, but most of those are unprintable. And somehow he got tagged with the name Precious Petunia, which was always met with his steely ice blue-eyed sneering glare. He hated it when I called him that!! I was single and had recently lost Singer my beloved GSD. The only dog in my home was JD a 'Tzu. Aggadore came home at 8 weeks old and quickly settled in as the lord of the house. He was fun and a bit weird, so a perfect fit into my home. About a year later, Kevin and I became an official couple living in sin and Aggadore soon clawed his way into Kevin's heart. In 1998, at age 2, Aggadore had a serious UTI and several Vet visits. The end result was PU surgery. Yup, poor Aggadore had his special "male" part amputated. The surgery and recovery were a success and he had no lasting affects from it. Well, he did develop a predilection for wearing my red high heels and painting his claws purple. But, you know, I always thought it a cute and there was no way it could be related to his name. :lol In 1999, Kevin and I adopted our first greyhound Dancer. She arrived home on a Sunday and I think Aggadore stayed on top of the refrigerator until Wednesday. :rofl He quickly accepted Dancer and later the rest of our greyhounds, with loving affection. He most frequently shared beds with them on the floor. A year later when Xena, Warrior Pussycat joined our home, his nose was out of joint for a day or so. However, she quickly paw-whipped Aggadore into line and they became good housemates. Over the years, Aggadore welcomed 8 greyhounds, 1 'Tsu and 4 cats into our home. He entertained our guests when we got married, and endured our trips to Key West and the pet sitter. He survived several hurricanes, a move when we had to relocate for hurricane re-no, and endured a harrowing adventure outside when he escaped from Kevin one night. Aggadore was never an outside cat and as a result, he hated the grass. I think he spent the night walking across the street to the neighbors' house and back to our garage on the pavement. He was a very compact cat with typical Manx "rabbit-like" hind legs. He had no tail at all and he had the Siamese blue eyes and voice, but without the vocal-ness of most Siamese. At one time he weighted in at 16 pounds. Aggadore loved to sit on the headboard of the waterbed. And to leap into the middle of it just when you were getting comfortable or were about the fall asleep. Yeah, lots of good times there! Changing the sheets was fun too because there was always a large cat-shaped lump under the sheets. He would jump onto the middle of the bed and he fully expected to be made into the bed. He did not care if it was between the sheet and mattress pad or between the sheets or the under the blanket, he loved it. And he would sleep tucked in the bed for hours. Weirdo! However, he never liked to sleep under the covers with us. Several years ago, he developed a bowel blockage. After a Sunday ER Vet visit and a manual evacuation, he needed a course of antibiotics and a fiber addition to his diet. He recovered pretty well from the invasion, but his bathroom habits started to slide downhill and he began to develop UTI's as his age progressed. Needless to say, UTI's do not bode well for a PU cat. In recent months, the antibiotics seemed to have stop working and he was becoming incontinent. His weight was dropping and he was not happy most of the time. It is heartbreaking to see a cat who was so robust and full of life, slip down that path. Dignity is so much a part of a cats' make-up. The past few weeks were spent cleaning up more puddles and washing beds as the incontinence increased. I knew Aggadore was not happy with a wet butt nor with sleeping in the wet spot. Monday I made the decision to send him to the bridge. While he was reasonably bright-eyed and bushy-butted, I wanted to preserve his pride and dignity. Our Vet gave him an exam Monday and seemed to think he felt a mass. He agreed with my decision. The whole "day to early/day to late" subject has been argued many times. But to me, it is all about quality not quantity. Aggadore, I love you forever and I know you understand and accept my decision. I know you have joined Dancer, Dylan, Dixie, Donner, JD, Xena and Mallory at the bridge. Someday, when we reunite, I hope to gaze into your accepting and loving blue eyes again. Quote Wendy and The Whole Wherd. American by birth, Southern by choice. "Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup!" ****OxyFresh Vendor ID is 180672239.**** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hubcitypam Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) I'm sorry Wendy. Aggadore was beautiful and what a great name. The Birdcage is one of my favorite movies. http://movieclips.com/WkDP-the-birdcage-movie-naked-greek-bowls/ Edited November 2, 2011 by Hubcitypam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IrskasMom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I am so sorry you lost Aggadore Awsome Pictures Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliggie Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) I am so sorry. It is a heartwrenching decision to have to make. Edited November 2, 2011 by fliggie Quote My Photojournal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batmom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 What an amazing and wonderful cat! I'm sorry for your loss. Godspeed, handsome. Quote Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in IllinoisWe miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greytpups Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm so sorry for uour loss...what a wonderful life he had with you. Quote Jan with precious pups Emmy (Stormin J Flag) and Simon (Nitro Si) and Abbey Field. Missing my angels: Bailey Buffetbobleclair 11/11/98-17/12/09; Ben Task Rapid Wave 5/5/02-2/11/15; Brooke Glo's Destroyer 7/09/06-21/06/16 and Katie Crazykatiebug 12/11/06 -21/08/21. My blog about grief The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not get over the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to. ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wmlcml6 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm so sorry for your loss of this special cat, Wendy and Kevin. What a great tribute to him and his huge impact in your life. I loved all the pictures! Rest in peace, never to have another UTI again, handsome. {{{{{HUGS}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawthorn Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 He sounds like a wonderful cat and I'm sorry you had to say goodbye to him. Rest in peace, Aggadore Quote When a relationship of love is disrupted, the relationship does not cease. The love continues; therefore, the relationship continues. The work of grief is to reconcile and redeem life to a different love relationship. ~ W Scott Lineberry Always Greyhounds Home Boarding and Greyhounds With Love House Sitting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiveRoooooers Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 What an awesome friend to have shared your life. Beautiful tribute to your boy, Wendy. Godspeed Aggadore Spartacus, special kitteh of many names Quote Old Dogs are the Best Dogs. Thank you, campers. Current enrollees: Punkin. AnnIE Oooh M Angels: Pal . Segugio. Sorella (TPGIT). LadyBug. Zeke-aroni. MiMi Sizzle Pants. Gracie. Seamie . (Foster)Sweet. Andy. PaddyALVIN!Mayhem. Bosco. Bruno. Dottie B. Trevor Double-Heart. Bea. Cletus, KLTO. Aiden 1-4. Upon reflection, our lives are often referenced in parts defined by the all-too-short lives of our dogs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4greyhounds Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I am very Sorry! Quote Darlene Mom to: Aladdin, Sophie ,Pongo, Jasmine, Relic Forever in our Hearts Champ at the Rainbow Bridge. Let a greyhound race into your heart Adopt Bay Area Greyhound Adoptions INC. Naples/ Fort Myers Chapter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dante2zoe Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 What a wonderful and fitting tribute for your wonderful boy. May he find all the red heels and purple polish that he desires! That's a great name, btw. I love that movie. Just watched it again a couple weeks ago! Stay away from those pirn tablets! Quote Cindy with Miss Fancypants, Paris Bueller, Zeke, and Angus Dante (Dg's Boyd), Zoe (In a While), Brady (Devilish Effect), Goose (BG Shotgun), Maverick (BG ShoMe), Maggie (All Trades Jax), Sherman (LNB Herman Bad) and Indy (BYB whippet) forever in my heart The flame that burns the brightest, burns the fastest and leaves the biggest shadow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linda Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 What a lovely tribute to a lovely cat! Quote Angel Gary (Hallo Smoke'em 2000-2013), Angel Molly (Kiowa Mysticrule 1999-2011) Linda, Hana, Sultan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gazehund Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 A life very well lived and very much loved. I am sorry for your loss Wendy. Rest well Aggadore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyB Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm so sorry Quote Nancy with Rocket, Umeko and Sasha Missing Albi, Kassie, Ramm, Ruby, my good boy Marvin and Mickey (BT) NANCY B'S COLLARS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozgirl2 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Wendy & Kevin - hugs from me... it's so so hard to lose a special kitty. He's beautiful... (PS - both mine 'help' me make the bed...) Quote Jeannine with Merlin, the crazed tabby cat and his sister, Jasmine, the brat-cat With Angel Cody(Roving Gemini), and Weenie the tortie waiting at the Bridge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamsmom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm so sorry Wendy. Aggadore was beautiful. Quote ~Beth, with a crazy mixed crew of misfits.~ Forever and Always missing and loving Steak, Carmen, Ivy, Isis, and Madi.Don't cry because it's ended, Smile because it happened.Before you judge me, try to keep an open mind, not everyone likes your taste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pookie Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm sorry for you loss. He sounds like he was a wonderful kitty. :grouphug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MTFSTHNDS Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) Wendy & Kevin. Aggadore was a special, wonderful kitty. I loved the pictures and the story. Manx cats definitely have a different personality. I have one now and have had several in the past. MIssing my Hopper & Booger. Edited November 2, 2011 by DragonLady Quote Adrienne - with the kitties Tippy & Tyler Too Missing my bridge angels Boo Zsee, Java Bean (Nitro Kristen), Zeeba and Baer the not-so-miniature schnauzer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fostr_Mom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 What a beautiful boy! And I love his name, great choice. I am so sorry for your loss. Your bed making story made me smile with sweet memories of my special kitty. He used to do that too. RIP Aggadore. Quote <p>Mom to Kyle (Diehard Kyle) & Angel Gracie (KB's Sankey) Foster Mom for AFG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PiagetsMom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm very sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turbotaina Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 Aw, Wendy, I'm so sorry for your loss Quote Meredith with Heyokha (HUS Me Teddy) and Crow (Mike Milbury). Missing Turbo (Sendahl Boss), Pancho, JoJo, and "Fat Stacks" Juana, the psycho kitty. Canku wakan kin manipi."Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities." - Voltaire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyPoopon Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 (edited) I'm so very sorry. Thank you for telling us about a kitty who was special even when he wasn't roaching or sporting purple nails and red high heels. Godspeed Aggadore. Edited November 2, 2011 by GreyPoopon Quote Standard Poodle Daisy (12/13) Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerlinsMum Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm very sorry Rest in peace, Aggadore... Quote Kerry with Lupin in beautiful coastal Maine. Missing Pippin, my best friend and sweet little heart-healer 2013-2023 Also missing the best wizard in the world, Merlin, and my sweet 80lb limpet, Sagan, every single day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest budsmom Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I think it must be a cat's special job in life to help make the bed. Every one I've had has had to be in the middle of it. I'm so sorry you had to let your special boy go. I know what a hole they leave in your life and your heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robinw Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I'm so sorry. He must've been a very special guy Quote Xavi the galgo and Peter the cat. Missing Iker the galgo ?-Feb.9/19, Treasure (USS Treasure) April 12/01-May 6/13, Phoenix (Hallo Top Son) Dec.14/99-June 4/11 and Loca (Reko Swahili) Oct.9/95 - June 1/09, Allen the boss cat, died late November, 2021, age 19. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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