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You've done this sweet guy a world of good in that four months that he's been

with you. A very short time for you, but it has meant a lifetime of love to him.

He'll leave with someone by his side that has cared and loved every moment

of his being for those short 4 months. You've done a wonderful thing.

I'm hoping for some beautiful days for you both until it's time to say goodbye.

Say goodbye to him with a smile on your face and no tears in your eyes. Whisper

in his ear that it was the best 4 months of your life and tell him to wait for you at

the Bridge patiently, until you can meet again.

 

Bless you for all you are doing for him.

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This is so sad for me to read, so, I can imagine how hard it is for you to post. Take photos, make memories and treasure the days you have left with your boy. I am so sorry.

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Murphy just turned 9. But the way he dances when he's happy--mommy came home, dinner time, walks, he seems like he could be much younger, although he's got an old, distinguished face.

 

One of the ladies at the office took a whole bunch of pictures of the 4 of us, so we have some with DH and I in them. :)

Beth, Petey (8 September 2018- ), and Faith (22 March 2019). Godspeed Patrick (28 April 1999 - 5 August 2012), Murphy (23 June 2004 - 27 July 2013), Leo (1 May 2009 - 27 January 2020), and Henry (10 August 2010 - 7 August 2020), you were loved more than you can know.

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If you decide to cook a steak: Easiest to deal with one that is boneless. Put some oil in a skillet, turn heat up to high, plop steak in, give it 1-2 minutes, turn over and turn heat down to medium. Give it @ 4-6 minutes, turn back to the first side, give that 4-6 minutes, should be mostly done (and plenty done enough for him). If it's more than @ 1" thick and you want it decently done, after the first 1-2 minutes per side and turned down to medium, add a couple tablespoons water and quickly put a lid on; leave lid on for the 4-6 minutes each side. He might enjoy it raw in the middle -- in that case you can do just the first 1-2 minutes at high heat to sear each side, let cool, and feed -- but that might gross you out. Could probably also google the time amounts for baking or broiling in the oven, which might be easier for you to deal with.

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We miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10.

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I am so,so sorry for you guys and Murphy.

It seems so unfair for these thing s happen.

Hugs to you guys...and I will keep praying for you all. :bighug

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:grouphug

 

I think the activity list is wonderful. I hope he enjoys every second of it.

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I'm so sorry that you're going through this, especially so soon after Patrick. Seems like he will have a wonderful weekend.

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My hugs and love to Murphy and to you. We went through lymphoma with our dear Timber 4 years ago. It took 7 months to diagnose and by the time we did, she only had a month left. Hardest thing ever.

 

We had her on steroids for 3 weeks, and then they had less good effect and her eyes told me it was time.

 

Someone else gave good advice... just be as happy and loving and fun as you can and afterwards you'll mourn....

 

He's in the moment with you.... and the best moments he's had in his life. That's all he needs is your love!

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I'm so sorry :( :(

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Murphy is gone.

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Beth, Petey (8 September 2018- ), and Faith (22 March 2019). Godspeed Patrick (28 April 1999 - 5 August 2012), Murphy (23 June 2004 - 27 July 2013), Leo (1 May 2009 - 27 January 2020), and Henry (10 August 2010 - 7 August 2020), you were loved more than you can know.

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I'm so sorry you've lost your boy.

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Beth, my thoughts are with you and your DH.

 

Godspeed, innocent boy.

Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in Illinois
We miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10.

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