robinw Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 December 1 is six months since Loca passed away. If only I could stop beating myself up for my decisions. If only she wasn't in so much pain at the end. I just want her back. Quote Xavi the galgo and Peter the cat. Missing Iker the galgo ?-Feb.9/19, Treasure (USS Treasure) April 12/01-May 6/13, Phoenix (Hallo Top Son) Dec.14/99-June 4/11 and Loca (Reko Swahili) Oct.9/95 - June 1/09, Allen the boss cat, died late November, 2021, age 19. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyPoopon Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Ah Robin, I wish I could help. But I'm sort of in the same boat. Quote Standard Poodle Daisy (12/13) Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hannahmom Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 for you both my friends Know that your babies are missd by many Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greytpups Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 You loved her so much Robin, always remember your love for her. You just wanted her to feel better and you did everything you could with the knowledge you had at the time. Quote Jan with precious pups Emmy (Stormin J Flag) and Simon (Nitro Si) and Abbey Field. Missing my angels: Bailey Buffetbobleclair 11/11/98-17/12/09; Ben Task Rapid Wave 5/5/02-2/11/15; Brooke Glo's Destroyer 7/09/06-21/06/16 and Katie Crazykatiebug 12/11/06 -21/08/21. My blog about grief The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not get over the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to. ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaliforniaGreys Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Robin, I can only hope that we will have the answers one day, and the forgiveness we feel we need Quote Missing my little Misty who took a huge piece of my heart with her on 5/2/09, and Ekko, on 6/28/12 For the sick, the lost, and the homeless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Gingergrey Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Remember that the love you and Loca had for eachother will last forever regardless of any decisions that were made. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheFullHouse Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 I miss her stories so much. I think we've all felt the same way Robin, we just do the best we can. Quote Judy, mom to Darth Vader, Bandita, And Angel Forever in our hearts, DeeYoGee, Dani, Emmy, Andy, Heart, Saint, Valentino, Arrow, Gee, Bebe, Jilly Bean, Bullitt, Pistol, Junior, Sammie, Joey, Gizmo, Do Bee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest larock Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 I wish i didn't know how you felt Robin, but sadly I do. Loca knew how much you loved her and you really did the best you could. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grey14me Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 :grouphug Quote Michelle...forever missing her girls, Holly 5/22/99-9/13/10 and Bailey 8/1/93-7/11/05 Religion is the smile on a dog...Edie Brickell Wag more, bark less :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerlinsMum Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Oh Robin Quote Kerry with Lupin in beautiful coastal Maine. Missing Pippin, my best friend and sweet little heart-healer 2013-2023 Also missing the best wizard in the world, Merlin, and my sweet 80lb limpet, Sagan, every single day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shirley44 Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Quote Miles October 4 2002-Novembre 19 2013 Mommy loves you big boy Tatum December 1 2004-January 23 2015 Love you Miss SiSi Bums Rowdy October 26 2001 -November 5 2015 Miss you Bébé Lou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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rycezmom Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Oh Robin, its so hard when we have to say goodbye to these precious pups and then try to get use to the changes in our life without them. Never second guess the decisions that you made. We are not perfect beings but we all try very hard to do what we feel is right. You made your decisions with love and that is never wrong. No forgiveness is ever needed when you have acted from your heart. Loca rests inside that loving heart of yours and keeps you company every day with her memories. L. Quote The more I see of man, the more I like dogs. ~Mme. de Staël Missing my Bridge Angels Ryce, Bo, Jim, Miss Millie, Miss Rose, Gustopher P Jones (Pimpmaster G), Miss Isabella and Miss Star Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PhillyPups Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Oh Robin, you know my heart aches and breaks with yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batmom Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 {{{{{{{{{{Robin}}}}}}}}}} It's never wrong to try to help a dog in pain. Sometimes you get lucky and you can help. Too often, you can't. You knew when enough was enough, and that is all a dog could ask of her best person. Loca, sweetie, I can picture your elegant self running over the earth, feet scarcely touching earth. When you stop for breath, send your momma some kisses on the wind. Quote Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in IllinoisWe miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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greyhoundlov Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 We can't second guess ourselves, but I know what you are going through. Quote Mary in Houston Everyone has a photographic memory, but not everyone has film. LAND OF THE FREE BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devotion Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 You gave it your all and that's all that can ever be expected. Loca, without a doubt, knew you adored her. Don't look back, look forward and remember the wonderful, crazy, times you had together. That's what she wants. Loca's there in your heart, she's never far. I still think about Scooter and how he could have gone on but I didn't want him to suffer from the enivetable pain of osteo. I think our heart dogs go on for us. Personally, I think that's what is hard. Truly, there is nothing to forgive or beat yourself up over....you did for Loca out of love. How could that ever be wrong? Quote Pam with greys Avril, Dalton & Zeus & Diddy the dachshund & Miss Buzz the kitty Devotion, Jingle Bells, Rocky, Hans, Harbor, Lennon, NoLa, Scooter, Naomi and Scout at the bridge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jettcricket Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 My heart hurts with yours Robin...I so feel your pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest vahoundlover Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 I know it's hard not to second guess and blame yourself. It's been 3.5 yrs since Dolly died and not a day goes by that I don't think...if I hadn't have given her that damn pill, she would still be here with me. Robin, we do what we think is best out of love and the information we have at the time. Loca knows you were trying to help her and that you love her very much. Try to go easy on yourself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
45MPHK9 Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 still thinking about you and loca. i can't imagine the hurt you must feel. she is without pain now. Quote Tricia with Kyle, our senior mutt dog Always missing Murray Maldives, Bee Wiseman, River, Hopper, Kaia, and Holly Oaks Holly“You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows.“ -Bob Dylan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LakeshoreGreys Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 You loved Loca and that's all that matters. She knows how much you loved her. Hugs to you. Quote Sara formerly on Greytalk as Mommyof3Gone, but still part of our family and always in our hearts:Bruiser Isa Comander To 6/23/91-11/20/03 Sandy NSK Special Up 10/19/89-6/13/04 Beau Bdk's Boo Boo 1/1/93-12/15/06 Cooney Lars Dbltakedean 11/1/93-1/23/07Buddy 2/9/1997-11/16/09 Joe Elkhart Joe 11/7/99-12/2/10 Alex Streakin Diablo 4/17/02-4/1/11 Brother Hylife Brother 9/26/97-2/28/12 Comanche Gil's Comanche 6/7/2005-11/7/2015 Molly 4/8/2011-4/13/2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazygang Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Try not to dwell on what happened before she passed away, remember the happier times and the love you shared.... Quote Run free our beloved Sir Snowy, Pip, Queenie, Sadie, Tess & Rosie until we meet again......I would rather feel the thorn than to never see the rose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winnie Posted December 1, 2009 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Quote Laura with Celeste (ICU Celeste) and Galgos Beatrix and Encarna The Horse - Gracie (MD Grace E) Bridge Angels Faye Oops (Santa Fe Oops), Bonny (Bonny Drive), Darcy (D's Zipperfoot) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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