GreyPoopon

My Hansum Debbil is gone. I said goodbye very early because I wanted him to leave while he was still mostly happy. After you read about him, I think you'll understand why. Before Graham Arrived Zydeco Dancer (Dancer) had a fairly long and prolific (200 races) career at Seabrook and Hinsdale. He wasn't very successful. He ran his last race at Hinsdale in April 2006 when he was about 5 1/2. He arrived at GRA Canada in July 2006, I think. I suspect he was adopted fairly quickly, and he was renamed Apollo. By early 2009 he was back at GRA, and in need of TLC. He was adopted again a few months later, and returned at the end of the year. This time he was on thyroid medication, and there were concerns about his behaviour and the risk that he might pose to a forthcoming child. I later heard from a trainer that thought she had worked with him and that couple (the timing was off but the rest of the details matched); he was not a good fit for the family. One of the volunteers had fallen for him the first time he was returned, and mentioned him to me when he came back again. She did not have room. I also heard about him from another source. In the meantime, I had lost both of my broodies (Cora and Piper), and knew that Tally had OS. That would have left Jessie alone in her walking group. I really wanted a broodie, but there wasn't one available here. I'd also thought that it might be interesting to add a boy--my first--to the mix. After thinking about it for a bit, I called and asked Bill of GRA if Apollo might fit. Bill hesitated, wondering if Apollo had lived with cats. He was sure Apollo would fit if he were cat safe, and would check his files. I made an appointment to meet Apollo on February 11, 2010. When I arrived, Apollo did not want to leave his crate. Heather of GRA drew him out. She said, "Oh, I know, you don't like change." I later realized how insightful that comment was. As soon as he emerged, I said, "He's pretty!" It was an odd thing to say about a boy, but I later heard others say the same thing about him. We got to the front part of the barn and Heather shut the door so that he would not be tempted to bolt back to the kennel. He glued himself to her. But he quickly warmed up to me, and was soon quite happy to stay with me even when Heather went back to the kennel for a moment. Bill had checked his files and discovered that Apollo had lived with cats. I agreed to take him home. He hopped right into the car and settled in for the long ride. He was a bit worried, but behaved well. Graham's Time Here One of the very first things I did was rename him: Apollo was too much of a mouthful for me and I couldn't figure out a short form I liked. Plus I thought he might be happier with a new name for his new life. I chose Graham. Graham was a very worried boy. For the first week, I had to attach a leash to get him out of his crate. After that, he would come out if I coaxed him, but otherwise stayed put. Once out, he often tried to dive into the nearest open crate. It was a month before he would voluntarily leave his crate and spend time with the rest of the family. I tried to get a photo of him standing a few days after he arrived, but he just wanted to go back into the house and the safety of his crate (February 2010): Coaxed out of his crate, he perched on the beds beside Jessie and Edie (February 2010): The well-known pic of him when he relaxed enough to try one foot out out of his crate (February 2010): It took a long time for him to settle in, to relax and enjoy himself first on walks, then in the house, and finally in the yard. He soon learned to appreciate his walks with Jessie and Tally. Tally even taught him to sit at the front door for a pre-walk treat before she left a month and a half later. But if I took him out by himself, he was terrified, and spent the entire time trying to turn for home. He had little interest in being out in the yard, either by himself or with others. Demonstrating his new sit at the front door with Tally, just 10 days before I lost her to OS (March 2010): I took him to school. He was worried there too. By the end of the course, he had gradually relaxed enough to have the basic skills. But if he made a mistake, I couldn't fix him--he was still too tense. That would have made the next level frustrating for both of us. After discussing it with the senior trainer, who had been an assistant in that session, I decided to repeat the course. The first class was better still. In June I made the mistake of taking him to the annual GRA Picnic. I thought he'd be alright--he'd felt safe at GRA, and I took calm, sociable Jessie, whom he liked, along. But he was so worried that he wouldn't even take sardines from the volunteer who had fed them to him when he was there. The tension dissipated at home, but recurred when he went back to school. Another class, still more regression. Another conversation with the senior trainer--again an assistant in the class--and I decided that his scholastic career was over. He was almost 10 and he deserved to spend what time he had left enjoying himself as much as possible. So he stayed home. On the deck, looking more comfortable and very handsome (August 2010): An early sign of his inner goof (March 2010): Over the time that he spent here, he showed more and more enjoyment. He started dancing and happy snapping before walks. He wasn't very elegant, but I realized that I'd been wrong when I decided that he wasn't enough of a "Dancer" to restore his kennel name. I never did get a decent video of his dance, but this is one of the better outtakes. Please ignore the silly voice (April 2011): He learned that the kitchen was not a forbidden place to dash through on the way to and from the back door. He discovered that if I were there, I'd give him some attention. Getting an ear rub in the kitchen (March 2010): Celebrating his 12th birthday with a stinky fish (Cal to the left) (September 2012): He also learned to request attention when I was in other places. His cautious technique was evident in his gradually increasing confidence in the living room. First he tried a tentative approach across the coffee table, then he learned to move up beside it, and finally he tried the gap between the coffee table and the chesterfield. The entire process took months if not years, but he got there. And he loved attention. When I sat somewhere where there was enough space for multiple dogs to approach--an invitation known here as "smoochy poochy"--he was always one of the first to arrive and usually one of the last to leave. During his last year here, he gradually realized that he didn't really need to be in his crate when I was walking other dogs. He started with the morning walk. One day he just went to the beds instead, and I didn't insist that he go to his crate. For a while, he sometimes chose one location and sometimes the other. Eventually he decided that he would always go the beds. A few months later, he started doing the same thing after another walk--evening, I think. A few months after that, he began staying out after his lunchtime walk. I'd realized shortly after his arrival that he didn't really need to be crated, except that he was calmer in his crate. By the time he left, he'd settled enough that he spent relatively little time confined. He learned, with Jessie's help, that being in the yard could be fun. I started letting them play together. At first they were muzzled, but after the initial romp to the bottom of the yard, Jessie would retreat to the deck to try to remove her muzzle. After a few weeks I realized that they were extremely unlikely to injure each other. I dispensed with the muzzles and they both relaxed and enjoyed their yard time. Proving that he did know how to run like a greyhound. In most of the pics I have of him running, he looks very awkward (July 2011): Jessie telling him that he's slow (September 2011): A happy boy in the yard (July 2012): He learned that having his nails Dremelled was not sheer torture. At first, he'd lie in an awkward sphinx--when I could get him to stay still--and it was difficult to see and file his nails. A couple of times, once when he had a cut foot, he let me know he was displeased; he wore a muzzle after that. But by the time he left, he would lie quietly on his side through the process, and I could gently push him flat if he were partially upright. He learned to relax about walking with a different group, or even on his own. He no longer tried to turn for home early. And then there were the sound effects. In the fall of 2011, when he'd been here for about a year and a half, he started to chatter. He was one of several: Jessie, who'd stopped sometime in the 5 1/2 months during which 3 of her sisters departed, started again. Then Graham. Then Betsy, who had been here 6 1/2 years! Even Minnie, who was the loudest of all. Pink, previously a silent chatterer, added a bit of clicking. In early 2012, Graham added a new sound effect: grunting. The first time he did it, I was putting a towel under is feet for his weekly chew. It was such an odd sound that I wondered if he were having trouble breathing, but I couldn't see any other sign that he was. Then I wondered if he were objecting, but I put a towel under his feet every week, plus he didn't seem the least bit tense. I gave him his bone and the sound got louder and faster. He was happy! Over the next several months, the grunting became more frequent. Then he added a new variation: purring. Even though the sound effects seem to coincide with happiness or relaxation, I was a little concerned that there was an underlying breathing issue. I recorded a short video and showed it to my vet. She couldn't see any indication that he was having trouble, so she agreed that the sound must mean he was content. Comfortable on the beds with his best friend Jessie (Edie to the right) (October 2010): One of my favourite pics of him, because he was so relaxed and happy after celebrating his 11th birthday with a romp in the yard (September 2011): My worried boy was finally truly happy. My girls have a lot of nicknames, usually based on their names. Graham's had to do more with his looks and attitude: Hansum Debbil, Too Handsome for His Pants (he didn't have much hair on his thighs during his first summer here), Happy Dancing Boy, Mr. Happy Pants... And, of course, he was my Token Boy. Why He's Gone Sometime last summer, Graham started vomiting occasionally in the morning. A stomach drug solved that problem. He also had bouts of terrible diarrhea. Everybody did, due to Salmonella that went from dog to dog and back again, and almost killed Perry. When we finally realized what was happening, everyone was prescribed an antibiotic. That put Graham off his food, and he lost perhaps 7 or 8 pounds. When the course was complete, he did start to eat again, but I could never get all of the weight back on him. In January, he started to have trouble with his back end. It showed up first at the groomers' where he had trouble standing in the bath. Then I noticed that he was stutter-stepping in front, and gradually realized that's because his back legs weren't working properly. We tried an anti-inflammatory, but that didn't help much. We weaned him off it so that we could try something else. We also added a painkiller. We x-rayed him, but his hips seemed fine. There was some inadequate spacing in his spinal column that could have caused the symptoms. In the meantime, his appetite started to fail again. We did his annual bloodwork a bit early, and found a suspicious kidney value. It wasn't off by enough to start treatment; we scheduled a retest. His hind end became weaker. If he stood for any length of time, his back legs shook. He became more hesitant about the ramp and stairs. This was a serious issue: he was physically too tall and heavy, and emotionally too fragile, to assist with a harness or other device. If he lost the ability to move himself, I was not going to be able to help him. Then his stool started to deteriorate. By that point, things were changing faster. We did a slew of tests on his stool, found a clostridim overgrowth, and began treatment. We retested his kidney values; they were fine. We checked his thyroid, in case he was being oversupplemented. He was not. We checked his food tolerances; they'd actually improved, and there was no indication that he was on the wrong food. The trips to the clinic for tests were very hard on him: he panted for hours and was tense for days. In mid May he spent a day at the clinic--given his stress, I asked my vet to do everything necessary on that one day because it was the last time I'd take him in--and had more x-rays and more bloodwork. The only thing that showed up was possible megaesophagus. Since that could have been due to sedation and stress, he did have to go back the next day for another x-ray. Fortunately, his esophagus was back to normal. We still didn't have a proper diagnosis for either his gut or his back, his appetite was very poor, and his weight was decreasing. We tentatively concluded that he must have either inflammatory bowel disease or intestinal cancer. We gave him an injection of anabolic steroids and added prednisone to his drug regimen in the hope that he would start eating. He did. For two whole weeks. But then he had a rough weekend: he lost momentum on the three steps up from the deck and fell backwards, which left him hesitant and more likely to fall again. His back legs were so bad that he could stand only briefly before the shaking was dramatic. His stool was still worse, despite four different drugs. His appetite was starting to tail off again. Individually, none of the events of that weekend was devastating, but together they were frightening. On Monday May 27 I booked an appointment to speak to my vet about what was happening. Before the appointment, I took Graham over for a quick weigh-in. Even though he had been eating well, he had dropped another 3 pounds since the day of testing two weeks earlier. He was down 15% from his ideal 85 lbs, and was down about 15 pounds from a year earlier when he was a bit over that ideal (but still not too heavy). I told my vet about the events of the weekend, and asked her two questions. The first was how long we should wait to see if the medications would work. She said it was past time for that. The second was what else we could do. That answer was much longer. We could increase the meds for his back again, but they hadn't worked previously, and might further suppress his appetite. We could increase the prednisone or add a chemo drug. But nothing we had tried to that point had worked--not even a bit--and nothing we did for his gut would help his back. We didn't discuss therapies that required clinic visits; they were out of the question because of the stress that he would endure. I know we could have tried other things, and nursed him along for quite a while. But I'd watched Piper nearly starve to death while we fought a similar battle without a clear diagnosis; I did not want to subject another dog to that torture. Plus both my vet and I suspected that the dramatic weight loss and other symptoms meant he too had intestinal cancer. Even more important, I didn't want him to return to being worried all the time. I wanted him to go when he was still dancing before walks, happy to receive attention, grunting and purring when content. I wanted him to go while he was still (mostly) enjoying life. So, just a week before he reached 12 3/4, I said goodbye. In the three months that he's been gone (the delay in this post was caused by my schedule), I've gradually stopped expecting to hear him barrelling down to the front door before walks, barking his demand that I hurry up. I no longer expect to see him coming around the corner of the kitchen before meals. And, much to my surprise, the living room floor did not float out the window with him no longer holding it down in his favourite spot. But I still miss him. A lot. My Hansum Debbil did not have a great start to his retirement. But he enjoyed his time here. He knew he was home. He knew he was loved. He was, in the words of a GT friend, a Good Dog. In his favourite spot on the last afternoon. His eyes weren't as dead as they seem here--that was the lighting and his desire for a nap--but the signs of his illness are apparent. He looks thin and old. He did, though, get up happily for his last walk. (May 2013): The photo that's been the wallpaper on my phone for some months. I had a photo of Edie and lost her a few months later. I replaced it with one of Dixie and Cal and soon lost Dixie. I'm not usually superstitious, but I couldn't help wondering if I were jinxing Graham when I chose this photo. Then I lost him. I don't think I'll put another photo of a resident dog on my phone (November 2012): Zydeco Dancer Graham Racer. Retiree. Multiple Return. September 3, 2000 - May 27, 2013 Godspeed Graham

Congratulations! Stan looks like a total goof. The pic made me .

Congratulations! I'm glad it finally all worked out. He sure is settling in quickly. I like his call name.

That's a pretty good medical report. for more progress. I love the cart. Especially the padding. Very very nice.

Glad things are going well at the moment. re the tests.

:)

Definitely Medium. GLs are very adjustable. The medium I have for Minnie fits a grey.

I'm so very sorry about both of your boys. It must be very hard to lose two so close together. Godspeed Corbyn. Godspeed Aleister.

You may have tried these things, but... With a new dog or picky eater, I take a variety of treats. At the beginning of class and for stuff the dog knows well, I use lower value treats. The higher value stuff is used for new or more difficult/important stuff (walking, recalls). With Cal, who was usually very stressed (she wasn't good around other dogs) and is not all that interested in treats at the best of times, I had a huge variety of treats. I also used more praise and pets, since that worked at least as well for her; praise and pets are not much good for luring. It can also help to find something to lower the stress levels, perhaps an easier or different task, a little walking around. I believe Batmom sometimes leaves the hall for a bit. I don't because there is usually enough room in the training hall to find a quiet spot. At home, where it's the task rather than the environment that causes the stress, I switch tasks. Or be silly for a bit. Or quit (preferably on a high note) and try again later.

How incredibly sad. That's a horrible way to lose a young handsome boy. Godspeed Xander.

:yay Hope the sore heals quickly.

Congratulations! I've had several who were reluctant to eat at first, even if they came from a kibble-only environment. She'll eat when she's hungry enough.

that the treatment has her feeling great soon.

Oh no! I sure hope there is something that can be done for her. and

Congratulations! Glad he's fitting in so well. I hope he's over his cough soon.

I'm so sorry. She left much too soon. Godspeed Anicare.

I'm so sorry Pam. He was much too young. Godspeed Buddy.

I'm so very sorry. Your springy boy should have had more time with you. Godspeed Batman.

He was an extraordinary boy.

How incredibly sad for her Mom. Godspeed Katie.

I'm so very sorry. He had a great life, and he loved his last treat. What more can a boy ask? Godspeed Sam.

I'm so sorry Pam. I wish he could have enjoyed much more time with you.

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and Sam.

I'm so very sorry. He was a special and handsome boy, and he left much too soon. Godspeed Zero.