Paula, you know that I'm here if you need me. Anytime you need to, call me. I'm an eternal optimist, so I'm holding on to hope that OSU gives you better news. I'm also practical enough to know that the odds are slim, Enjoy that gooffy boy of yours. If you want to visit, let me know you can come and hang out here for while.
Diane has a good idea, I believe that Laura has one of the assist harnesses, ask her if you can borrow it. Hugs to Abbey, Andrew send you his best.