This is what I have learned. First, never forget that it is the highest act of love- the most loving thing that you can do-willingly accepting the pain of such a decision onto yourself, because it is best for your beloved. Your hound knows that too. 2nd: whether you realize it or not, it is not the end-only the body will die-the spirit- the real dog- what you fell in love with- will cross over. Actually there is quite a bit in the Bible about such things. One of my favorite references is Revelation 5:11-13 where it speaks of the animals in heaven praising the Lord. Regarding your other hound, he will know what has happenned to his brother whether you let them be together as the first one crosses over or not. Personally I think he has the right to be there and I would allow him to be if he wanted to. Our dogs are sometimes more understanding of what is going on than we are for various reasons. Continue to be focused on love as you are now, be as open minded about it as you can(realize you might not understand everything that is going on correctly), and love will see you through this excruciatingly painful experience. This has just been my experience and I hope it helps. I seen this posted before and it helps me: WE ARE NOT EARTH BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE. WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY EARTH EXPERIENCE. And never forget you will ALWAYS have each others love:
For love is as strong as death….
Many waters cannot quench love,
Nor can the floods drown it.
Song of Solomon 8:6-7
I will be praying for you as you go through this-may God bless you and give you strength. Acting out of such deep love is the most anyone can ever do.