Guest Snowy8 Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 As some of you might remember, my dad was diagnosed with cancer earlier this year...some kind of lung cancer. At first they said it was slow, then it was aggressive...because of his age 86, he opted to NOT do chemo. About a month ago, he started having chest pains & hallucinating...his potassium was not level & they admitted him to "extended care" at the hospital university. On the 2nd night he was there, I almost lost him. His lungs filled up with fluid & his blood pressure spiked. Luckily because he was in the hospital, they were able to level him out & he was fine. He got to the point where he was walking in the halls & doing well, almost enough that the doctors who had told us he would not make it to the end of the month, said he could go home. This passed week however, he became worse. He lost his present memory, thought my mom was still alive (she died in June 2004) and that we still had horses. He knew who we all were, but not what day or year it was & he thought he was still living in the little house that my mom & he had bought over 50 yrs ago. My dad was the one who introduced me to greyhounds. I'm sure some of ya'll will remember my story about when we would go to put flowers on my mom's father's grave in Mariana Arkansas, that we passed Southland...we'd stop for gas before going back to Memphis & there would always be a dog hauler there at the gas station. Turned out also, that my dad as a young boy, not old enough to bet...went to Southland, which tells you how old that track is...although the one we know now is not the same original track...the original one burned down. He loved my first greyhound, Sadie-Grey...she would stand next to his chair for him to pet her & he loved the feel of her soft fur. He loved her eyes....and she loved her Peepaw. Snowy was his next favorite...she tried to climb in his lap the first time I took her to see him...he called her Whitey. My dad taught me a lot about life, about being honest & about believing that God will take care of me. He showed me how to change the oil in my car, how to respect other people's property & how to use common sense over book sense. He taught me to appreciate reading, and listening to what the other person has to say. About making another person feel like they are the most important person in my life. The nurses told me yesterday that no matter how bad he felt, he always smiled at them when they came in the room. When they found him sitting on the floor, where he snuck out of the bed one morning, he was smiling as if he'd been caught doing something he shouldn't have. I will miss my daddy... but I know for sure that he is with God & the angels & my mom. I love you Peepaw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest benson Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I'm so sorry for your loss. Now he and your mom are together again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CleosMom Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Quote Jennifer Cleo (Golddust Cadilac 83484 Blazing Desire X Greys Blu Fox) Cole (Hallo Jeremy 88778 My Rooster X Bahama Tango) Athena (R and a Peach 93839 Coldwater Guv X R and a Lady) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BellaDonna1 Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I am so sorry Hilda. Sending prayers and thank you for coming today. It was so good to see you and I wanted to do more but I know there is not much I can do, Love you girl.............jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MauCarden Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 Your daddy sounds wonderful. Having so many wonderful memories will help you get through this awful time. Quote Missing my sweet girl Scout. My snuggler, my chow-hound, my kissy girl. It never thunders at the Bridge, and your food bowl is ALWAYS filled. So strange not living in Atty World. I was a love struck handmaiden to your every whim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest argolola Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 What a sweet and loving man. He and your mom are probably strolling hand in hand right now, with a bunch of greyhounds following them. God bless you Hilda. May God carry you through this sad time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mom2two Posted May 7, 2005 Share Posted May 7, 2005 I'm so sorry, thank you for sharing this with us I can only imagine how hard this is for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greytlady94 Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot do justice at a time like this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Quote Greyhound angels at the bridge- Casey, Charlie, Maggie, Molly, Renie, Lucy & Teddy. Beagle angels Peanut and Charlie. And to all the 4 legged Bridge souls who have touched my heart, thank you. When a greyhound looks into you eyes it seems they touch your very soul. "A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more then he loves himself". Josh Billings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest claysmom Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am sorry for your loss. Know that your mom and dad are together once again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendie Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am so sorry Quote Forever in my Heart Joe T Greyhound, Charly Bear, Angel Daisy, and Katze & Buzz Kitty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batmom Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Your dad is a special man indeed to inspire so fine a tribute. I'm sorry he's gone from your life now. May his smiles and his lessons stay with you forever. Quote Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in IllinoisWe miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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robinw Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am so sorry Quote Xavi the galgo and Allen the cat. Missing Iker the galgo ?-Feb.9/19, Treasure (USS Treasure) April 12/01-May 6/13, Phoenix (Hallo Top Son) Dec.14/99-June 4/11 and Loca (Reko Swahili) Oct.9/95 - June 1/09. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DoofBert Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Sorry to learn of your loss. Any man with the name "PeePaw" must have been one in million! Remember all the happy times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest julief Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I'm very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you at this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LBass Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 What a beautiful and loving tribute to your father. My heart grieves for your loss. May the memories of the loving times you had with your father keep him close to you in the future. Lucy Quote Lucy with Greyhound Nate and OSH Tinker. With loving memories of MoMo (FTH Chyna Moon), Spirit, Miles the slinky kitty (OSH), Piper "The Perfect" (Oneco Chaplin), Winston, Yoda, Hector, and Claire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burpdog Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Sending my deepest sympathy Quote Diane & The Senior Gang Burpdog Biscuits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gazehund Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss Hilda. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grey14me Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 What a wonderful tribute to a very special man...I'm so sorry for your loss Quote Michelle...forever missing her girls, Holly 5/22/99-9/13/10 and Bailey 8/1/93-7/11/05 Religion is the smile on a dog...Edie Brickell Wag more, bark less :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patricia Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I am so sorry. Sending prayers and sympathy...I know how hard it is to lose your parents. Quote Patti-Mommy of Lady Sophia 7-28-92 - 8-3-04... LaceyLaine 8-2-94-12-5-07... Flash Gordon 7-14-99 - 8-29-09... BrookLynne...Pavé Maria... and 18 Bridge Kids. WATCHING OVER US~SOPHIA~QUEENIE~LACEY LAINE~ CODY ANGELO~FLASH GORDON. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Quote ...............Chase (FTH Smooth Talker), Morgan (Cata), Reggie (Gable Caney), Rufus (Reward RJ). Fosters check in, but they don't check out. Forever loved -- Cosmo (System Br Mynoel), March 11, 2002 - October 8, 2009.Miss Cosmo was a lady. And a lady always knows when to leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greyhoundnerd Posted May 8, 2005 Share Posted May 8, 2005 Hilda- I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm sending good thoughts and prayers your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest how888 Posted May 9, 2005 Share Posted May 9, 2005 (edited) Hilda,I was so sorry to hear about your dad as I knew you were doing your best with him.What a wonderful tribute to him and I know he and your mom are holding hands watching down at you on this beautiful day thinking of what a wonderful,thoughtful daughter they have.May God Bless you at this time.May all of your memories bring you comfort and pm me any time day or night.You always make my day Hilda now I hope I can do the same in return.You will get a sign,I know.We're all here for you day and night to get you through this. Hugs, Linda My dad passed over several years ago and I still feel him around me at times.I grieve with you my friend. Edited May 9, 2005 by how888 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Greymom Posted May 9, 2005 Share Posted May 9, 2005 I am so very sorry for the loss of your father. Sending prayers and hugs to help you through this very difficult time. Take comfort in all of the wonderful memories you have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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