I see nothing unusual in what you have done, I guess that makes me eccentric too Seriously, why do you care what other people think? Some of my friends think I go overboard for my animals, but they respect my choices, and just say they want to come back as one of my pets
I feel sorry for your friend, he has no clue what he is missing. I, too, would find it difficult to continue to consider him a friend, not because of his opinions, he has a right to think whatever he wants, but for giving you such a hard time about it. What you do for your animals, and in the rest of your life, for that matter, is really none of his business!