I am so sorry, I know the pain of letting them go a "day" too soon, but it is still better than waiting too long. Sometimes their spirit is not willing to admit their physical weakness
I've been sitting here with this "reply" box open, but the words just won't come. I don't know why the deaths of these dogs, and Martin in particular, is so devasting.
Be at peace Martin, you were greatly loved
It's good you cleared the air with her. I do understand that most owners probably don't want the details, but now that you've explained that you DO want to know, she should keep you fully informed.
for Rocky