"The look in Arrow's eyes will tell you all you need to know." This is so true. Concentrate on Arrow, spoil him rotten and go with your gut feeling about when he has had enough. You know him best and if you prepare yourself, talk to him about how you feel, tell him that you will fight for him if that's what he wants, but if he's ready to go, he has to let you know. JMHO
So many have been down this road and I am so sorry you have joined us. I will keep you and Arrow in my prayers.