I actually have a pretty easy bunch with my three. I guess I got too cocky! I have no idea why the cats tolerate my dog drooling all over them but they even try to feed from him. Haha. Yes I do think I should wait until they get a little bit older. They are very playful right now and even my dog who gets along really well with them can't help but chase and trip over them sometimes. He never gets aggressive but I can see how their running and jumping can be a lot for even a dog who may be okay with older cats.
@RobinW:
When I dropped him off the woman at the rescue actually let me know that she did have one hound who had been in a house with cats before and tested safe there, but she said she knew I probably wasn't ready yet and everyone needed time to settle down and she was right. I am definitely going to keep in touch with the rescue for the future. I have friends who own hounds from Donna and volunteer with her. I really appreciated how kind she was toward me.
I want to tell everyone I'm definitely not turned against greyhounds after this! I know each dog has an individual personality. Plus when Phaeton wasn't with the cats he was actually a very good dog. A gentle giant. I actually love the breed more after having him. Hopefully one day I can make a great home for a different hound.
I actually think you did the right thing here, so don't beat yourself up about it please!! When I got my grey, she had not been cat-tested but I was told she would be fine with cats. She was NOT! And was my first dog ever. She stared, drooled, was obsessed, etc. The group was no help and would not take her back (I didnt' even know that was an option!) so I had to work with her. She was crated for at least 4 years whenever I left the house because I didn't trust her with the cat. Eventually, they were OK together when I was there - I think my cat, not the friendliest of animals, was disciplining her through the bars of the crate 'cause she ended up a bit afraid of the cat, or at least wary!
However - it was NOT a fun time for me, being worried I'd come home to a dead cat. I probably would have returned her if I'd had that option - she should not have lived with kitties. On the other hand, I'd have missed out on a great dog! (Still my only one ever)
The experience has also colored my perceptions - I now have 2 cats, and one is very pushy and in-your-face. I have not gotten another grey, partly because I'm not home enough any more but also because it'll take a special dog to live with Miss Constantly-On-You kitty.
So... deep breaths, enjoy the kittens and think about another grey, maybe when the kittens have calmed down a bit!!
And stay around here if you like! I don't have a grey & am still here!!