Guest BlackandTan Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 So after working with Senko for the last few weeks we have decided that we are not going to FAIL at fostering. We are both heads over heels for her but our house isnt big enough for 3 dogs and I think she would be better off with another dog who was more self sufficient... SHe wants ALL of the attention and will get pretty nasty with the boys. Plus when they are outside the boys get way too rough with her.. I really regret having to do this but it is best for her and us. Im sure somne people on here will have negative comments and thoughts and thats fine, but do me a favor and keep them to yourselves. Matt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trihounds Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Your call, dude. Her forever home is out there and you've got her best interest at heart. That's the way it should be! Quote Doe's Bruciebaby Doe's Bumper Derek Follow my Ironman journeys and life with dogs, cats and busy kids: A long road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggiespet Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 No flames here. You're fostering her. That's what you signed up for. And I'm sure her forever family will appreciate all you've taught her while in your home. Quote http://i57.photobucket.com/albums/g240/mtbucket/siggies/Everyday-2.jpgJane - forever servant to the whims and wishes of Maggie (L's Magnolia of JCKC) and Sam the mutt pup.[/b] She's classy, sassy and a bit smart assy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetcitywoman Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 While we all love the idea of failing fostering, I don't see any reason to criticize this decision. You're doing what's best for the dog. It's what we all want. Cheers! Quote Sharon, Loki, Freyja, Capri (bridge angel and most beloved heart dog), Ajax (bridge angel) and Sweetie Pie (cat) Visit Hound-Safe.com by Something Special Pet Supplies for muzzles and other dog safety products Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest k85trb Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I've fostered as well and both my foster girls found lovely homes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feisty49 Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I've fostered only once (my current life style does not lend itself to fostering), and it made me feel bad and sorta guilty when I sent him on his way, fostering is supposed to be temporary, so I can't imagine anybody thinking you did something wrong. The pups should be in a place that is best for them *and* the family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a_daerr Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I once fostered a grey for two days. Although it sounded like she was going to work out, I realized almost immediately that it wasn't a good fit (namely because she wasn't safe with my cats). It happens like that sometimes. Don't beat yourself up. She'll find her forever home soon enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest thecoyotesgrin Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Not every foster can fail. If that were the case there'd be far fewer foster homes that could take dogs. It sounds like this foster-ship would be improved with an adoption on both accounts! No more snagging attention and no more too-rough play! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatterseaBrindl Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You have to do what is best for all the hounds! Quote Nancy...Mom to Sid (Peteles Tiger), Kibo (112 Carlota Galgos) and Joshi. Missing Casey, Gomer, Mona, Penelope, BillieJean, Bandit, Nixon (Starz Sammie), Ruby (Watch Me Dash) Nigel (Nigel), and especially little Mario, waiting at the Bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BrianRke Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Why would someone flame you for fostering a dog? I admire people that foster dogs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BlackandTan Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Why would someone flame you for fostering a dog? I admire people that foster dogs. I had all intentions on failing.... Ive seen a few people on here just about get crucified for returning dogs... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fostr_Mom Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 What BrianRke said! Foster homes are invaluable to adoption groups. You are not returning a dog, you are helping her find a home, which opens up another spot in the kennel for the next one. Thank you for fostering Senko. Quote <p>Mom to Kyle (Diehard Kyle) & Angel Gracie (KB's Sankey) Foster Mom for AFG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dobiegrey Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 No Worries Matt, you accomplished just what fostering in meant to do, find out the best place for the girlie!!! Now YOU know her personality, what she needs in a home, and what her new family needs to know before making a choice!! You have learned a great deal about her and taught her some things too!!! No Flames here...and I would be surprised if you get any! That is what fostering is, to learn and teach!! Lou Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gryffenne Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) Why would someone flame you for fostering a dog? I admire people that foster dogs. I had all intentions on failing.... Ive seen a few people on here just about get crucified for returning dogs... The ones that get crucified on here for returning dogs aren't foster homes. For those that crucify, that is the key difference. For me, she didn't fit with your pack. They were there first, they are your first priority. Edited March 16, 2012 by Gryffenne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dee Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 You're doing what you signed up for! You're getting her ready for her forever home......it's all part of the journey that greyhounds take till the settle into the home that's right for them. Don't know why you would think anyone would even think to criticize you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jettcricket Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 As others have said, you need to do what's best for you, your family and your foster. I don't think anyone would criticize you for that...and if people have been slammed in the past for returning dogs it was probably because of lame reasons. Best of luck to your foster!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyWrangler Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Kathy runs a good kennel she will find the right home. I fostered a big black boy, Brett, for two weeks before i brought Harry home. I wanted to fail with Brett but. He was just not the right dog for us. He was adopted an hour and a half after I brought him back. And I took home a rambuncious medium size black ROMAN nosed boy. He is perfect for us. Quote Nancy and Grace - Andicot 2/1/07 Solo - Flying Han Solo 3/20/11 Missing: Murphy, Shine, Kim, Sprite, Red Dog, Lottie & Harry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vjgrey Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I can't imagine why anyone would flame you. This is exactly the purpose of fostering with intent. Returning an adopted dog you've had for several years because you're unwilling to deal with a minor issue is a total different matter - those are the people who are "crucified," here. Totally different than what you're doing. "Successfully" fostering is great and hugely needed. Quote Valerie w/ Cash (CashforClunkers) & Lucy (Racing School Dropout)Missing our gorgeous Miss Diamond (Shorty's Diamond), sweet boy Gabe (Zared) and Holly (ByGollyItsHolly), who never made it home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DragonflyDM Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I can see why someone would flame the OP. How dare you take in a dog and show him love! Who do you think you are supporting the rescue of these majestic hounds? You make me sick, everytime I think of you trying to feed, walk, and love this animal. And I hope someone makes you pay for that kindness when you also make the very heart-wrenching decision to bring him back because you are already caring for other dogs who were in the same situation who you HAVE adopted and loved so completely... what is wrong with you???? I say good day to you sir! Good Day! Just makes me so mad, I want to eat some cheese and sit on a rat! lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sambuca Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I have fostered with intent twice now. I decided not to adopt either dog. One ended up being cat keen so wasn't a safe fit for my house. The other was sweet and gentle and shy. I thought Bu would do better with a more outgoing dog. I kept telling the adoption coordinator no, but hes the easiest foster I've had. 4 months later he was adopted by a nice couple that ended up not bring ready for a dog. A week later he was returned minus his tail. I told him that hes never leaving again. That was in July. He knew he was home way before I did. You have to do whats right for you and your family. No flames here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NJgrey Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I had all intentions on failing.... Ive seen a few people on here just about get crucified for returning dogs... It happens, people have their reasons for returning dogs and I don't think anyone should be judged because of it. This site and others are full of great, knowledgeable and friendly people but really, they don't know the first thing about your life or anyone else's so they're in no position to judge about returning a dog or not. There are 100 reasons it doesn't workout sometimes, and as long as the dog isn't put in danger I'm not going to jump on anyone for it. Sorry it didn't work out with your foster, but as others have said, she IS a foster afterall... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaryJane Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I hope no one flames you. You were fostering and you wanted to fail but, it was not to be ... maybe next time. For what it's worth, I like (and respect) that you just came on and said that it didn't work, explained why and didn't apologize (except to the dog). You took responsibility and are not looking for others here to justify your actions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BlackandTan Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sighthounds4me Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I would not call that unfortunate. Rather, it's a GREAT thing that you recognized your limitations, and will find her a great forever home. That is a win/win! Quote Sarah, the human, Henley, and Armani the Borzoi boys, and Brubeck the Deerhound.Always in our hearts, Gunnar, Naples the Greyhounds, Cooper and Manero, the Borzoi, and King-kitty, at the Rainbow Bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BlackandTan Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I would not call that unfortunate. Rather, it's a GREAT thing that you recognized your limitations, and will find her a great forever home. That is a win/win! Good Point! I just wish that I hadnt fallen for her... But I guess thats all part of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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