Penelopesslave Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I haven't posted anything about this because I didn't want it to be true, but I think we are at the end with Bell. She hasn't eaten in 2 days and won't get up except to pee and drink a little water. The meds for her CHF aren't helping at all. She didn't even greet me by the door when I came home from my doctor's appointment this morning. In the three years we have had her she has met me at the door every time I came home, even if it was just coming back from the mailbox. Her eyes are dull, her sparkle is gone. I cannot bear to watch her like this. I know we have to make a decision soon, probably within the next day or two. I didn't realize how hard this was going to be. Even though I know it is the right thing to do-- she isn't enjoying life anymore and we've pretty much exhausted our options-- I still feel like I am betraying a friend. Given her poor condition I would not be surprised if she passed away in her sleep, maybe that would be best. I wanted for her to stay with us long enough to meet our baby in December. I am sorry I am rambling. I am going to miss her so much and I know other greyhound people will understand. I just had to get it out somehow. Melissa, Penelope (LC's Wild Rose) Missing sweet Bell (EMK Bolivar Bell). I'll never forget you. "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man." - Mark Twain {image removed, taller than 150px} Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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CaliforniaGreys Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Please don't feel that your are betraying her. It's the final gift of love we offer them, and it's because you love her so much that you set her free. I can't even tell you how sad I feel, she went through so much to get to you.She's a very special girl and was lucky to have found you and I bet she knows that. We will keep you and Bell in our prayers Missing my little Misty who took a huge piece of my heart with her on 5/2/09, and Ekko, on 6/28/12 For the sick, the lost, and the homeless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SusanP Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I'm so sorry. Something I had to keep reminding myself when I made this decision for our old girl Simon is that none of us lives forever. You are making a loving choice for your girl and it is in no way a betrayal. It is only a kindness. I sometimes still have to remind myself of that, but I really believe it. as you go though this painful time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KyGrey Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Oh Melissa I'm so sorry. I remember Miss Bell and her ride up from the hurricane area. You and DH gave her such a wonderful, loving home. I'm sure it's the best she had and she will remember you always until you meet again. I thought I was going to have to make that decision last week. Lee couldn't stand up and the vet asked me what I would do and to start thinking about it if his previous condition was as good as it gets. I can't stand the thought of having to make "the decision" especially by myself. You are a very generous, loving mommy and can and will only do what's best for her. I just want to send hugs to you. You know we are all here if you need anything. :grouphug :grouphug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest argolola Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I am crying for you and Bell. I'm so sorry you are both going through this hard time. You will make the right decision for you both. God bless you, precious Bell. You are loved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remolacha Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I am so sorry the meds aren't helping. I went through this with Sugar this summer (well, not the baby part) When she lost interest in life, I knew it was time. I wasn't ready, but she was. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4greyhounds Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I am so very sorry, you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Darlene Mom to: Aladdin, Sophie ,Pongo, Jasmine, Relic Forever in our Hearts Champ at the Rainbow Bridge. Let a greyhound race into your heart Adopt Bay Area Greyhound Adoptions INC. Naples/ Fort Myers Chapter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hannahmom Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Sending hugs and caring thoughts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Sending hugs and prayers for you both. ...............Chase (FTH Smooth Talker), Morgan (Cata), Reggie (Gable Caney), Rufus (Reward RJ). Fosters check in, but they don't check out. Forever loved -- Cosmo (System Br Mynoel), March 11, 2002 - October 8, 2009.Miss Cosmo was a lady. And a lady always knows when to leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neighsayer Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Hugs! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PiagetsMom Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 You are making a loving choice for your girl and it is in no way a betrayal. It is only a kindness. I sometimes still have to remind myself of that, but I really believe it. So well said......and, I really believe it, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobinM Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 I am so sorry and I can't begin to imagine the pain of what you are going through. You know your girl, you will know when the time is right. Hugs to you and gentle sritches for Bell. ROBIN ~ Mom to: Beau Think It Aint, Chloe JC Allthewayhome, Teddy ICU Drunk Sailor, Elsie N Fracine , Ollie RG's Travertine, Ponch A's Jupiter~ Yoshi, Zoobie & Belle, the kitties. Waiting at the bridge Angel Polli Bohemian Ocean , Rocky, Blue,Sasha & Zoobie & Bobbi Greyhound Angels Adoption (GAA) The Lexus Project Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tammystroops Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 many many hugs In loving Memory of: Chip, Wendell, Tessa, Moose, Moody, Noble Storm, Thunder, Gracie, Duke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SoulsMom Posted November 18, 2008 Share Posted November 18, 2008 Gentle hugs to all of you I can't imagine how difficult it must be . . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greytfulhounds Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I am so sorry. Having been where you are I understand what a hard decision it is to make. Sending prayers & thoughts to you & Bell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheFullHouse Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I can't find the words Melissa to express how sad this makes me. I know you've done everything possible for beautiful Bell and you gave her a home when she needed it most. My heart goes out to you and you and Bell have all the prayers and hugs I have to give. Give her a kiss from me please. Judy, mom to Darth Vader, Bandita, And Angel Forever in our hearts, DeeYoGee, Dani, Emmy, Andy, Heart, Saint, Valentino, Arrow, Gee, Bebe, Jilly Bean, Bullitt, Pistol, Junior, Sammie, Joey, Gizmo, Do Bee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyKarma Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 It is not easy to say goodbye, I am sorry you have to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your pain is our pain please take care. CAROL & Molleigh (Queen Molly)My Angel Girl (Slippy's Molly) ~ Thank you for sending me your namesake ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kelli123 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Melissa, Sorry about your pain. The way we got threw the last few months of my boys life, I would lay on the bed with him and read to him out loud the bible , we would pray every night for God to give us the strength to make it through this awful time. I would tell him how wonderfull it would be in heaven, and that i would some day be there with him. I could and no that he felt a calm come over us and with out prayer we would have never made it through it. GOD BLESS you Bell you sweet angle. You will be Loved for ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sheila Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I'm tearing up too and I totally get the frustration and pain you are feeling. My thoughts will be with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jettcricket Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 ....gentle hugs to and your sweet Bell.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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MerlinsMum Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I'm so sorry :cry1 Sending hugs and strength. :grouphug Kerry with Lupin in beautiful coastal Maine. Missing Pippin, my best friend and sweet little heart-healer 2013-2023 Also missing the best wizard in the world, Merlin, and my sweet 80lb limpet, Sagan, every single day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DebR Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I've been there, and it's an horrible place to be. I know words aren't adequate. I'll keep you in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greysandmollie Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Hugs to you and your DH.... It is such a difficult decision even when you know it is the correct one. Donna and...Lucy and Chubb Rascal H 10/1/91-5/22/04 My best friend and Bounty Boon 1/23/99-6/25/07 My boy with the biggest heart Cody 7/28/99-8/1/13 My boy that always made me laugh and Dylan 5/12/04-12/29/2017 The sweetest boy ever Miss Mollie 1/1/99-1/30/15 and Pixie -10/10/2017 Lincoln -2/14/2021 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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