Thanks everyone for the kind thoughts. I'm finding the little things hard .... no drippy nose at my side waiting for my cereal left overs, no one hopping at the bottom of the stairs as I come down in the morning and no big lugs head in my lap watching TV at night. I miss those big, loud, puffed out cheeky sighs. The girls seem totally fine... women are the stronger sex , but they do have each other so I guess that makes it easier for them.