hugs to you. I agree with your husband as long as you can keep him happy. I made this decision for my bridge angel Snowman. I picked the 3 things that he LOVED...playing ball, eating dinner, getting up to get pets. Even tho he would look at me with loving eyes He just let the ball roll past him, he ate but didnt do a happy dance and only nibbled, and would not get up for loves just pick his head up and lay it back down. I knew it was my turn to make true to my word and help him to the bridge. Good luck