Yikes Mary!! I don't think it is just you. I have been with my vet for 24 years. When I have asked to speak to the vet (and sometimes when I have not) he comes to the phone, no questions asked.
I am so sorry you and Dream are having to deal with this. If you can, I would try to get him to the vet out on the Island for his dental. Good grief, that is so unprofessional.