Ditto....When we brought EZ in, we had our beautiful bridge Beagle Lily. But when Jack came along, EZ was living in upstate NY with my husband who is stationed there and visits occasionally - so Jack was an only dog. It took him about two or three months to realize that he didn't have to "crate" himself in the kitchen. He treated that room like it was his safe haven - to the point that the first few nights I slept on the kitchen floor with him. I routinely would ask my husband when he was home if he thought Jack was happy - and to make it worse, I brought him by to visit the kennel and his friends up there at an event - and he acted like he didn't want to come home. By the time he passed on (less than two years later), he had become my partner, my shadow - and my home was totally empty without him. Your baby Hermes will come out of his shell. He just knows no other life than kennel life which is filled with other dogs and, as others have said, a clear routine - which provides some measure of safety in the dog's mind. Good luck and stick with Hermes. It will be worth it. There is something about the greys.....they just grab your heart and hold it - and your baby will do just that.