I am one of the biggest skeptics on this subject but must admit not any longer.
I was feeling the guilt most of us feel after having to make the decision to let one go, not because of the decision itself, but because I was afraid I had missed something which caused Misty discomfort.One day, that guilt was getting a bit out of hand.
That night, she came to me in a dream, I remember waking in the wee hours and siting up and a feeling of relief came over me that I have never in my life felt.
I did not miss what I thought I had missed, and never have I been so grateful.
It happens, not always when we would like it to happen, but when we need it most and are capable of handling it and not getting stuck because of it