If you are a selfish and irresponsible dog owner than I am right there with you. Amputation is simply not an option for Bones who is dealing with osteo right now nor was it for Kia whom we lost in March.
I wholeheartedly support the folks who have decided to go that route and I pray every day their dogs do well. Several of them have done very well and I am happy for them. I respect their choice to amputate and my real friends respect my choice not to. Everybody else just does not matter.
This is not a test. There is no right or wrong. There is only what you decide is the best course of action for you and your dog.
What helps me the most is to focus on the moment you are in. If your dog is comfortable and happy in that moment, don't worry about anything else. Not what is going to happen tomorrow, how will this all play out, what do people think (that is a serious non consideration for me). None of that. Enjoy the time you have with your dog RIGHT NOW. While he is still with you and feeling well.
I wish you the best. This is a tough road to walk, but as a very dear friend me, I am not alone in this. Neither are you. Take care. We are here to listen.