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queenwinniesmom

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  1. I'm so sorry you've gotten this diagnosis. I really think that the time right after you get that dreaded news is the worst. You are processing so many emotions, and thinking of so many possibilities. I know how tough it is---I've had one with lymphoma and one with osteo. Once you start getting information and deciding on treatment, you have a focus. CoG and GT are wonderful support, and information sources. And of course, Dr. Couto is so generous with his time and knowledge. You will learn a lot, and you are already moving in the right direction. When my Angel Patsy was diagnosed, our vet, who is not prone to heroic measures, told us that it is the type of cancer that does respond well to chemo, and I've known many dogs who did well. We agonized over that decision, but decided to do the chemo. Though everything seemed to progress the way it should have, we only had her for about 4 months before it moved to her central nervous system, and we had to let our precious girl go. But cancer is a crapshoot. You'll hear amazing successes and heartbreaking losses, but you know you have to try. You just need to do what you know is right for Bonnie and for you. And please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many.

  2. Oh, no! I was following Harley's thread with such hope. Tears in my eyes because I know how hard both of you fought. You know, we just do what we have to do, what we think is right, and sometimes it is enough, and sometimes everything we hope for just isn't to be. Please know that you did all you could for him, and let him know he was so very loved, even at the end.

    But cancer is a traitor

    that lets us dream our dreams,

    then takes them from us suddenly,

    and our hearts will break, it seems.

    From the poem I wrote for Winnie when she was diagnosed. I'm so, so sorry you lost your precious boy.

  3. I'm so sorry you're dealing with osteo again. We did do the amputation (no chemo), so I can't give you an estimate. But maybe this will make you smile---we had Winnie for 3 1/2 years after her diagnosis! I would suggest that you look into starting him on artemisinin ASAP. Winnie took it for those 3 1/2 years, and I truly believe that it was a factor in her remission. We lost her to kidney failure one month shy of her 12th birthday, not to osteo. Lots of studies being done on it, and Dr. Couto is very encouraged with their findings.

    Sending prayers to you and your boy.

     

  4. I'm so sorry you've gotten this dreaded cancer diagnosis. Even when you are so afraid, and thinking that it is cancer, it's still devastating to hear that word. As you said, it doesn't seem that he would be a good candidate for amputation, so whatever you do is going to bring you limited time together. Cherish those days or weeks or months, and don't let that sadness and fear of what's to come steal this precious time together away from you. He knows how much you love him, and that's the most important thing you can give him.

  5. Yes! He's doing everything right, and so are you. It's amazing how much better he looks in the last picture. All that bruising and seeping and stitches are enough to make you wonder if you did the right thing, but be assured that you did. That soft tissue trauma looks scary, but heals quickly. And now there is no pain from the tumor, and no chance of that bone shattering.

    Sending tons of white light for healing and a quick recovery. And gentle hugs to your sweet, brave boy.

  6. I'm so sorry you've gotten this devastating news. It brought back so vividly the feelings that overwhelmed us right after that dreaded diagnosis. I think it is the most difficult time because you're not sure of what to do, and those alternatives, as well as the well being of your precious boy, just consume your every thought. Since each dog and situation is different, I couldn't say that anything is right or wrong. You just have to do what you feel in your heart is right for Chance and for you. Even though amputation doesn't always buy a lot of time, it does eliminate that excruciating pain of an osteo tumor, and the chance that the bone will shatter. That was what we hoped for with Winnie, and she was with us for 3 1/2 years!

    Your family and your sweet Chance will be in my prayers.

  7. Maybe seeing his Mom will make him eat. I hope so. This is such a stressful time for both of you. Neither knows quite what to expect. But it's probably better that he is at the vets now. The anesthesia and pain meds can cause them to react differently--panting, that anxiety, etc. These things will ease off as his system clears.

    Thinking about you and Dempsey, and hoping that all goes well with his recovery.

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