Guest NRN13 Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 Thank you for your concern everyone. This has been such a hard decision, but we have decided to rehome Cleo Though she has some amazing qualities, I have a certain amount of fear with her now. I know that I will never fully trust her. I was in her space, true, but her response was severe. And she's gotten very protective of her stuff, not just her bed. We've had other growling incidents (some related to someone being near something of hers, and a few other odd times that were concerning). I could manage the environment to a point, but I would always worry about people in the house, new situations, etc. And if she bit again, and it wasn't a member of my family, they could report her and the outcome could not be good for Cleo. I want to protect her too. The adoption people were lovely and came out to the house and we talked for a long time. They were completely supportive and assured us that they will find a nice home for her. The behaviorist agreed, as did the trainer we use for obedience. Someone with more grey experience, or whatever. I just don't think I have what it takes to "fix" her and I would always be nervous. I wish it was different, but after all has been said and done, it's just too much. She's still in our house while they find her a home or a foster. We aren't in a rush, we want them to find the right place. She is still loved (and spoiled rotten!) Please no judging, I feel terrible, but think this is the right thing to do. Thank you all so much for the tips, advice, stories, and support. I really appreciate you taking the time to think about my situation and write a heartfelt response. This forum has been so incredibly valuable and supportive. I hope to be back one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Clawsandpaws Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 No judgement here! You did the right thing for the both of you. Do NOT worry about her getting re-adopted. There is the right home for every dog, and the right dog for every home. Our adoption group has dealt with similar cases, and each one was happily transitioned to a new home. Dudley snapped at my bf a few times in the beginning, and he was pretty nervous around him for a while, if he had bitten him, I have no doubt that we would have also rehomed him. I am sorry that you had such a rough go, I hope you adopt another grey some day! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brandiandwe Posted November 17, 2013 Share Posted November 17, 2013 No judgement here either! Obviously you were meant as a stop on her journey and not her final destination! I hope she finds her forever home soon, and that you find your forever dog. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PiagetsMom Posted November 17, 2013 Share Posted November 17, 2013 Thanks so much for updating. It's a tough decision to have to make, but the right one to make sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acadianarose Posted November 17, 2013 Share Posted November 17, 2013 No judgment here. I know it is a really difficult decision and obviously one that you did not take lightly. Payton has growled and snapped a few times. I don't know what I would do if he bit someone. Quote Payton, The Greyhound (Palm City Pelton) and Toby, The LabAnnabella and Julietta, The CatsAt the Bridge - Abby, The GSD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LazyBlaze Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 I'm sorry it hasn't worked out for you and Cleo. Hopefully she can find a home that's right for her and you can find the dog that's right for your home. Don't beat yourself up; hopefully this hard decision you've had to make will work out for the best for BOTH of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest k9soul Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 Comforting hugs to you. No judgment here. I'm glad you updated as I have been wondering about you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest RMarie Posted November 18, 2013 Share Posted November 18, 2013 No judgment here (we also recently returned what would have been #2 for us). I know how you feel. I hope you give greyhounds another chance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NRN13 Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Thank you all. I appreciate the support, it's been a tough decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
45MPHK9 Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Thanks so much for updating. It's a tough decision to have to make, but the right one to make sometimes. Agree. Quote Tricia with Kyle, our senior mutt dog Always missing Murray Maldives, Bee Wiseman, River, Hopper, Kaia, and Holly Oaks Holly“You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows.“ -Bob Dylan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walliered Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 My 7 year old hound has space aggression on her bed and I have had him close to 4 years. I have a rule to just leave him alone when he is on his bed. If you have children over, muzzle him or if they are very small (toddler) then put him behind a baby gate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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