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Sending my deepest sympathy. I know the pain. My Mom has been gone for seven years. I miss her very much.

Sending my sympathy

It hurts a lot! Has she sent you anyone to keep you company yet?

Sending my sympathy. It's quite a shock to find them like that

Glad to hear about your new addition! Did you receive my email? I didn't get a response from you

How tragic and so young Sending my sympathy. I hope you get answers!

I can't even imagine the sadness and pain Sending sympathy

Sending sympathy & hugs

I can't say it any better than Tami did It's hard especially when you do hospice care. A couple of stories. Animal communicators have a place in my opinion. They should help, but never take the place of your own relationship with your animal. I've used them on occassion. When Heart came to live with me she was traumatized and a basket case. Her owner had passed away and she was put out into the backyard by the husband with her kennel mate for several months before a niece brought them in to the adoption group. She was fostered several times. Had SA--could not be crated and peed & pooped when left alone even for minutes. Several months after she came, I talked with a communicator and told the communicator about Heart. She talked to Heart and told her "mommy" (as Heart called her) was gone. Heart said "she can't be--she comes to visit me". The communicator told her to let mommy go to the light. There was a marked difference in Heart after that session. She was still sad for a very long time, but not hysterical. A few months after Jodie went to the bridge, Shadow would stand and bark looking towards the bed she layed on or towards the ceiling above the bed. This went on for days and was getting annoying! I once again talked to the communicator and she told me what I already felt--Jodie was visiting. I tried telling Shadow it was ok, but almost every night, there he was in the family room barking. One night I marched into the room and said "yes, she is here, we all know she is here and we don't care! There probably is more than Jodie visiting--Burp & Trevor & Scooby and all the rest and we don't care--get over it!!!!" He looked at me and I marched out of the room and back to the computer. He never barked again at her bed or the ceiling I don't think you are crazy. There will come a time when you will be able to release her to the bridge where she will be waiting for you. And when you are ready, she will help a girl come into your life--they have a way of doing that for us.

I am so sorry to hear It's so hard for them to go on.....

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Happy Birthday Brock!

How sad Sending sympathy

I'm sorry to hear It had to be very hard to leave her

Please give them my sympathy

Sending sympathy I know how you feel. I made a difficult decision last year to send both Shadow & SieSie to the bridge on the same day, and they went within minutes of each other.

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What a shock! Sending sympathy

It's normal to hurt for a long time. What I have found is that the times of hurt get further apart. You should take time to mourn, but in my opinion, not dwell. It took me several years to be able to talk about Eliza. Every time I post about Rimadyl I cry a lot and it's been almost 6 years. I cannot, for my health and my current grey's well beings dwell on it. I would go crazy and that would not do anyone any good. I had Scooby 8 months. If I really start thinking about him, and posting, like right now, I am teary eyed. He touched me deeply. Jesse eating June bugs--the next year when the June bugs showed up I sobbed. Every time I read about a grey digging, I think of her digging away butt up in the air and tail going a mile a minute! What I'd give to have her digging away again Trevor loving the king size bed, Burp tossing stuffies and stomping if his 10 o'clock snack was late, SieSie nitting her stuffy or chasing the lawn mower, Shadow flying through the air with all four feet off the ground just a few months after he came here & I wasn't sure he would live, Jodie grinning at me, Solo chattering when I came home, Chrissy grinning when she did something wrong and I hadn't even found out what yet..... Memories--tears & smiles. I guess I have accumulated more smiles than tears. I have been blessed.

A special spirit for sure. Thank you for sharing her Sending my sympathy

Lisa -- I am sorry Many here know your pain.

Sending my deepest sympathy

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Sometimes the TBD tests are negative, yet they respond to doxy or doxy/pred treatment.