Oh Jen, I'm sorry to hear about Neyla's toe. I certainly understand toe issues given Mandy's bad feet. When I had to try and ice her foot, I took about 1/2 cup of frozen peas, put them in a plastic bag, wrapped it around her foot, secured it with surgical tape and a toddler sock...leave it on for about 20 minutes, take it off for about 20, then repeat. Of course, this required the "what did I do to make you hate me so much look."
Sending good thoughts for Neyla.