BJ,
You have had an awful time these last few months. I am so sorry for all your losses. Each one on its own is a difficult, almost unbearable loss, and to have so many all at once. My heart hurts for you.
You know, I consider myslef lucky to have met Maj and Black Jack at a Bluegrass event. What struck me when I first saw them was how they resembled Vinnie and Rex. A brindle and a black tux was my first pair, and I still have a soft spot in my heart for them. I can tell you that after losing them six years ago, my memories are still vivid and happy. I don't have as much pain from the day of the loss. It has been overshadowed by the memories. It takes a while to get to that point, but eventually you will cry less and smile more when thinking of Major.
Sending you and Black Jack big hugs.
Godspeed Major...