When I watched the videos, I cried but really , reading the posts of people who have experienced this with their babies is so unbelievably positive and hopeful. So away go the tears and down to work sending positive and healing thoughts for Alan.
If they feel it is phantom pain - nerve pain - then ask about gabapentin as well as the tramadol. It is often more effective for nerve pain and for sure that is real pain.
This so very sad. I know your pain is overwhelming right now. I am so very sorry. I'm so glad you got to hold her to your heart as she left, knowing how much she was loved. You gave her everything she needed Devon. Her life was good.
Well don't keep it together for a bit. Have a really good cry. You're entitled. He shouldn't have been left in that kind of pain. But then.... deep breath. You have a diagnosis now. It can be fixed. Your boy is being properly cared for now and he is going to be OKAY!
Well I can say both mine's teeth are better since I started giving them raw turkey necks. They weren't as bad as yours sound but even at 2x's a week for a month has done good things.