Guest argolola Posted September 21, 2003 Share Posted September 21, 2003 As the followers of the Argo story already know, we are giving her up, so that she may be happier with another family. This has caused me a lot of pain and tears, and has brought on flashbacks of my own daughter's funeral. My animals are the only children I will ever have, so they are extra special. I just felt like a posting in this category would help in my healing process. It's very hard to let go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batmom Posted September 21, 2003 Share Posted September 21, 2003 Hang in there. Easy to say, hard to do, right? Don't forget that Lola needs you too -- maybe now more than ever, since *her* life has changed again as well. Try not to think of it as losing Argo but as helping launch her into her new life. I can see from your lovely picture in the other post that you and your DH must love her very much; that is a fine gift to send with her. Quote Star aka Starz Ovation (Ronco x Oneco Maggie*, litter #48538), Coco aka Low Key (Kiowa Mon Manny x Party Hardy, litter # 59881), and mom in IllinoisWe miss Reko Batman (Trouper Zeke x Marque Louisiana), 11/15/95-6/29/06, Rocco the thistledown whippet, 04/29/93-10/14/08, Reko Zema (Mo Kick x Reko Princess), 8/16/98-4/18/10, the most beautiful girl in the whole USA, my good egg Joseph aka Won by a Nose (Oneco Cufflink x Buy Back), 09/22/2003-03/01/2013, and our gentle sweet Gidget (Digitizer, Dodgem by Design x Sobe Mulberry), 1/29/2006-11/22/2014, gone much too soon. Never forgetting CJC's Buckshot, 1/2/07-10/25/10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ZiaGrey Posted September 21, 2003 Share Posted September 21, 2003 I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through. I'm sure you will miss her tremendously. Batman's Mom makes some really good points. Lola needs you and you've helped Argo by letting her move to a more appropriate home. Take care of yourself and let us know how you're doing, ok? Big Hug... -Carla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gigi Posted September 21, 2003 Share Posted September 21, 2003 Try to remember: Your loss was not the permanent type, like death. Your selfless act of offering Argo a new home for her own happiness was beautiful. Keep reminding yourself that. And keep in mind, there is another dog out there that will be a better fit in your household. No loved one can ever be 'replaced" but each of our "children" fills a place in our hearts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tory Posted September 21, 2003 Share Posted September 21, 2003 Im so very sorry and your right to post here...after all you are suffering a loss...especially when it brings back such painful memories of a previous loss...i am so sorry to hear about your daughter ((hugs)) I hope that you find a greyhound that can bring you happiness as much as you bring them happiness and that you remember Argo in a fond way as im sure you will...i hope and hope that she goes to a home where she will be happy ((big hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forevermybabies Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Try to remember: Your loss was not the permanent type, like death. Your selfless act of offering Argo a new home for her own happiness was beautiful. Keep reminding yourself that. And keep in mind, there is another dog out there that will be a better fit in your household. No loved one can ever be 'replaced" but each of our "children" fills a place in our hearts. I agree with this completely. At the same time, I feel for you. I know how hard it is to give up a dog you've become attached to. Quote Tami, Nikki & Gypsy (non-greyhounds, but still pretty good dogs.) Deeply missing Sunscreen Man, Angel (Back on the Job), Switzler Festus and Joe (Indio Starr) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elvis Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Hopefully, Argo will be rehomed in your area, where you can see her again. Maybe at a M&G or visit her at her new home. They always take a piece of your heart when they leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patricia Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Quote Patti-Mommy of Lady Sophia 7-28-92 - 8-3-04... LaceyLaine 8-2-94-12-5-07... Flash Gordon 7-14-99 - 8-29-09... BrookLynne...Pavé Maria... and 18 Bridge Kids. WATCHING OVER US~SOPHIA~QUEENIE~LACEY LAINE~ CODY ANGELO~FLASH GORDON. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest murmurmel Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Wow, I just caught up on your story a bit, and I can definitely empathize... I also just had to give up my boy Dante, in his best interest... He had SEVERE seperation anxiety to the point where both his mental & physical well-being were a concern (long thread on our saga here ), so we sent him to be re-homed somewhere that there will ALWAYS be someone (dog or human) around to keep him company. It was a VERY painful decision, so I know how you feel... But, you have to think about the dog's well-being, and you tried very, very hard, and made the right decision in the end, as much as it hurt... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Maddysmom Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 I am so very sorry for what you are going through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ProudGreyMom Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 Big, big hug for you. As a "mom" to furkids only, I understand how you feel about your puppers. You did everything you could to make things work out. We're all here for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WhippetMom Posted September 22, 2003 Share Posted September 22, 2003 So sorry. We had to go through this back in March when we had to send Stowie back to the farm due to severe fear aggression. Our dogs are our "kids" as well, and it did feel like a death in the family. Sometimes its harder knowing he is still around, just not in our family. Time does help, but take some time to grieve as well. You are in my thoughts. Jenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 4luvofGreys Posted September 24, 2003 Share Posted September 24, 2003 so sorry for your pain.......may time and memories help you through Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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