Millies Mom,
It makes sense to me. We just lost Floydieboy two weeks ago and I was miserable. I didn't eat and absolutely wanted nothing to do with Christmas. Boy, DH was not happy with me. So for an early gift, he surprised me with Lyiddy, our new grey. She has been a great distraction. At first it was so hard to look at her while she laid there. I would cry and think of Floyd. But now it is getting easier. However, I do compare her to Floyd quite often and that is something I am trying to stop. She in many ways, is like Floyd, but in many ways she is not. She catches on pretty quick, where Floyd seemed to be a bit more-shall I say- doggie attention deficit disorder. He was big, fast and agile. She is small, fast and a complete clutz. So we laugh about the differences now. But at night when I go to bed, I kiss Liddy goodnight and then I climb into bed and that is Floyd's time. I think about him and try to talk to him. I ask him to help Liddy with all these new things that she is experiencing. And I tell Liddy, ask Floyd to help you when she is stressed.
My biggest fear is that we will forget Floyd. We won't. Losing him was like losing an arm. But Liddy, like I said before, is a good distraction. I knew we would get another grey, I just never imagined it would be so soon. But for me, it has helped.
Try to keep your head up through the holidays. It sounds like everything you are going through is pretty normal. It sounds like Millie had a wonderful life with you....Also, the support I received both here, from friends and neighbors and from other internet groups-really made me feel good, like I was normal to be such a wreck. It has been so amazing the support we have gotten with Floyd. I just don't think other breeds of dogs have people like us!
((((((hugs))))))