Hi any help would be amazing. I have 2 rescued GH. Been with us for 2 yrs. One of them, Olive has always had such a nervous, anxious and obsessive disposition. Any change in routine will unerve her and shows allot of anxiety in behaviour e.g paces, shivers/trembles, won't eat, body language very tort. My partner who she loved, passed away from cancer in October last year. He was starting to get sick (but we didn't know it was cancer) just as we got them. As a result I have always been primary carer for dogs as he increasingly couldn't. They spent allot of time with him in bedroom when sick. Since he passed away I notice both have become more anxious but Olive is sometimes off the scale. I get really upset by seeing her like this as nothing I do seems to help. I've tried dog behaviourist lessons for her reactivity with other dogs (very aggressive presentation when out but OK when friends bring their dogs round), cbd, calm tablets, lots of chewy toys and snacks, walks (she refuses to leave the house allot of the time), she is also reactive when sleeping and woken or people too in her face which I have asked people not to do. Otherwise show growls. She will stay out in the rain shivering but won't want to come jn, she paces and paces. She will suddenly be scared of something in the home that has always been there or decide to start sleeping in the most random uncomfortable looking places around the home. I cant work out any triggers, why she is always so anxious. She adores people and will almost go Ott when seeing new people not being able to control her exitement .
Since we got them, I suppose there has been allot of change. I was my partners carer allot, I worked and still work full time, allot of which I do from home so they are not often left. When they are maximum 5hrs maybe once a week, other times an hour here or there. I have dog walkers 2 x week to help me on days I am at worker longer . Olive loves them but somstimes won't go for a walk with them.
Admittedly I am very anxious and depressed allot for the time since losing my beautiful partner. I feel like she doesnt want to be around me or is not happy with me. Can anyone give any advise. I feel like I'm failing her . thank you xx