smurfette Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Hello everyone, I haven't been here like for ages. I got my second breast cancer diagnosis in September 2019. It was a curse but also a blessing in disguise because I was able to spent the last 6 month with Andy who we had to let got due to laryngeal paralysis in February (2 weeks after his 14th birthday). I was sad but not as devastated as I feared I would be. We had a wonderful time together and were both ready when it came to end. He had lost control of his hind end and couldn't go for walkies anymore. We let him go before paralysis got the better of him. I will write an eulogy for him in the rainbow bridge but the words still elude me. He was so much more than I can put in words. I needed time but finally fell in love again. Last Saturday I drove to Heidelberg to help with a transport from Ireland that came to our little adoption group. And there he was. I signed his papers on sight. I like all of you meet Abu (Cillowen Abu), 3 year old, Irish coursing greyhound who came into our home and just was there as if he had been home for years. Quote Sorry for butchering the english language. I try to keep the mistakes to a minimum. Nadine with Paddy (Zippy Mullane), Saoirse (Lizzie Be Nice), Abu (Cillowen Abu) and bridge angels Colin (Dessies Hero) and Andy (Riot Officer). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatterseaBrindl Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Oh my.. He's gorgeous! You most certainly have been through the ringer, but I'm sure Abu is more than capable of healing your heart. Quote Nancy...Mom to Sid (Peteles Tiger), Kibo (112 Carlota Galgos) and Joshi. Missing Casey, Gomer, Mona, Penelope, BillieJean, Bandit, Nixon (Starz Sammie), Ruby (Watch Me Dash) Nigel (Nigel), and especially little Mario, waiting at the Bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuvEarsies Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Welcome back! Abu is gorgeous and sure to make your life full. Quote Bernadette with Jak, Horizon, Kota, Barnaby, Madison, Earl, Tiggy, Finney, Tommy, Woody, Tyler and Lincoln all at the bridge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiveRoooooers Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 {{Nadine}} You have been missed. Andy was such a great guy and now Abu will help to steady your heart. Good to see you again! Quote Old Dogs are the Best Dogs. Thank you, campers. Current enrollees: Punkin. AnnIE Oooh M Angels: Pal . Segugio. Sorella (TPGIT). LadyBug. Zeke-aroni. MiMi Sizzle Pants. Gracie. Seamie . (Foster)Sweet. Andy. PaddyALVIN!Mayhem. Bosco. Bruno. Dottie B. Trevor Double-Heart. Bea. Cletus, KLTO. Aiden 1-4. Upon reflection, our lives are often referenced in parts defined by the all-too-short lives of our dogs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smurfette Posted September 5, 2020 Author Share Posted September 5, 2020 10 minutes ago, FiveRoooooers said: {{Nadine}} You have been missed. Andy was such a great guy and now Abu will help to steady your heart. Good to see you again! Thank you, Jan. It feels good to be back. I often thought that I should take the time to write some words but just couldn't bring myself to it. I hope you are well. Quote Sorry for butchering the english language. I try to keep the mistakes to a minimum. Nadine with Paddy (Zippy Mullane), Saoirse (Lizzie Be Nice), Abu (Cillowen Abu) and bridge angels Colin (Dessies Hero) and Andy (Riot Officer). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FiveRoooooers Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 17 minutes ago, smurfette said: Thank you, Jan. It feels good to be back. I often thought that I should take the time to write some words but just couldn't bring myself to it. I hope you are well. Your Andy stories were always so good We are fine thanks. I see you’ve met Cletus KLTO (KNOT Like The Others) ! Back to regularly scheduled programming: Abu! Quote Old Dogs are the Best Dogs. Thank you, campers. Current enrollees: Punkin. AnnIE Oooh M Angels: Pal . Segugio. Sorella (TPGIT). LadyBug. Zeke-aroni. MiMi Sizzle Pants. Gracie. Seamie . (Foster)Sweet. Andy. PaddyALVIN!Mayhem. Bosco. Bruno. Dottie B. Trevor Double-Heart. Bea. Cletus, KLTO. Aiden 1-4. Upon reflection, our lives are often referenced in parts defined by the all-too-short lives of our dogs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaimeL Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Congrats, Abu is stunning. Quote Mom to Ranger (PB's Long Ranger), Esso (Kiowa Stay Over) and Cookie the rattie mix Missing Kahn (Gil's Khan) 10-29-03 - 11-7-16 Belle (Regall Belooow) 8-9-07 - 3-12-17 Star (Greyt Star) 1-19-07 - 3-13-2020 Pitch (Emerald Pitch) 4-1-08 - 6-3-2020 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramonaghan Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Welcome back! I'm so sorry about Andy but glad you have peace that it was the right time. You loved him well and gave him a wonderful life. Congrats and welcome to the gorgeous Abu--love his tuxedo! Quote Rachel with littermates Doolin and Willa, boss cat Tootie, and feline squatters Crumpet and Fezziwig. Missing gentlemen kitties Mud, Henry, and Richard and our beautiful, feisty, silly Sweep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShebasMom Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Love the tuxedo look! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MP_the4pack Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Nadine, I hope your health is better. And I'm so sorry to hear about your handsome Andy traveling to the Rainbow Bridge. But oh boy is Abu a stunning boy. I hope he gives you years of enjoyment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greysmom Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Welcome Back!!!! While I was so sorry to hear about sweet Andy, I'm sure Abu will be up for the task of being a heart healer in your house. How are Paddy and Saoirse doing with him? Quote Chris - Mom to: Felicity (DeLand), and Andi (Braska Pandora) siggy by Chris Harper, on Flickr Angels: Libby (Everlast), Dorie (Dog Gone Holly), Dude (TNJ VooDoo), Copper (Kid's Copper), Cash (GSI Payncash), Toni (LPH Cry Baby), Whiskey (KT's Phys Ed), Atom, Lilly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remolacha Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Welcome back! I am so sorry you had to say good bye to Andy, I know he was a special boy for you. Abu is gorgeous, and looks like a typical Irish charmer I hope your health is better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Houndtime Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Glad you are back and feeling well. I am sorry about Andy, but Abu is very handsome and sweet looking. Quote Irene Ullmann w/Flying Odin and Mama Mia in Lower Delaware Angels Brandy, John E, American Idol, Paul, Fuzzy and Shine Handcrafted Greyhound and Custom Clocks http://www.houndtime.com Zoom Doggies-Racing Coats for Racing Greyhounds Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Time4ANap Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Glad you are feeling well enough to be back here. Andy will definitely be missed here. Abu is one handsome dude and I think he knows it given the look on his face... Quote Camp Broodie. The current home of Mark Kay Mark Jack and Gracie Kiowa Safe Joan. Always missing my boy Rocket Hi Noon Rocket, Allie Phoenix Dynamite, Kate Miss Kate, Starz Under Da Starz, Petunia MW Neptunia, Diva Astar Dashindiva, and LaVida I've Got Life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smurfette Posted September 5, 2020 Author Share Posted September 5, 2020 1 hour ago, greysmom said: Welcome Back!!!! While I was so sorry to hear about sweet Andy, I'm sure Abu will be up for the task of being a heart healer in your house. How are Paddy and Saoirse doing with him? They already love him. It is like Abu has been here since forever. They play with him and Paddy even shares his sofa with him. I have never had a dog that fit in so flawlessly like Abu. Quote Sorry for butchering the english language. I try to keep the mistakes to a minimum. Nadine with Paddy (Zippy Mullane), Saoirse (Lizzie Be Nice), Abu (Cillowen Abu) and bridge angels Colin (Dessies Hero) and Andy (Riot Officer). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerseyGrey Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 So sorry to hear about Andy, and I hope you’re on the mend 💐🍇. Abu is certainly a handsome devil and I hope you make as many happy memories with him as you had with Andy Quote Buddy Molly 🌈 5/11/10-10/10/23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EllenEveBaz Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 Andy must have picked him out. Best wishes for wonderful health for all of you. Quote Ellen, with brindle Milo and the blonde ballerina, Gelsey remembering Eve, Baz, Scout, Romie, Nutmeg, and Jeter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerilyn Posted September 5, 2020 Share Posted September 5, 2020 I'm so sorry about Andy. He was a good role model for my old girl who just turned 14 herself. They new guy is absolutely gorgeous! Quote Jerilyn, missing Lila (Good Looking), new Mistress to Wiki (PJ Wicked). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LBass Posted September 6, 2020 Share Posted September 6, 2020 Congratulations on finding your wonderful new boy. Quote Lucy with Greyhound Nate and OSH Tinker. With loving memories of MoMo (FTH Chyna Moon), Spirit, Miles the slinky kitty (OSH), Piper "The Perfect" (Oneco Chaplin), Winston, Yoda, Hector, and Claire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macoduck Posted September 6, 2020 Share Posted September 6, 2020 Hi Nadine! Good to see you back again. I will add Andy's name to the list of Bridge Angels for February. He will be in good company. Quote Freshy (Droopys Fresh), NoAh the podenco orito, Rita the podenco maneta, Howie the portuguese podengo maneto Angels: Lila, the podenco, Mr X aka Denali, Lulu the podenco andaluz, Hada the podenco maneta, Georgie Girl (UMR Cordella), Charlie the iggy, Mazy (CBR Crazy Girl), Potato, my mystery ibizan girl, Allen (M's Pretty Boy), Percy (Fast But True), Mikey (Doray's Patuti), Pudge le mutt, Tessa the iggy, Possum (Apostle), Gracie (Dusty Lady), Harold (Slatex Harold), "Cousin" Simon our step-iggy, Little Dude the iggy ,Bandit (Bb Blue Jay), Niña the galgo, Wally (Allen Hogg), Thane (Pog Mo Thoine), Oliver (JJ Special Agent), Comet, & Rosie our original mutt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyPoopon Posted September 7, 2020 Share Posted September 7, 2020 I am so sorry about your diagnosis and your loss of Andy. Abu is a wonderful addition and welcome distraction. He's gorgeous. Quote Standard Poodle Daisy (12/13) Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greytpups Posted September 7, 2020 Share Posted September 7, 2020 Hi Nadine. I’m so sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis and loss of Andy. Abu is very handsome and I’m glad to see another Irish greyhound found a great home. on another note - your English is great. Quote Jan with precious pups Emmy (Stormin J Flag) and Simon (Nitro Si) and Abbey Field. Missing my angels: Bailey Buffetbobleclair 11/11/98-17/12/09; Ben Task Rapid Wave 5/5/02-2/11/15; Brooke Glo's Destroyer 7/09/06-21/06/16 and Katie Crazykatiebug 12/11/06 -21/08/21. My blog about grief The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not get over the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to. ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teri_d Posted September 11, 2020 Share Posted September 11, 2020 You’ve been missed! So happy you have a new, and very handsome, love in your life! Keep posting pictures of this hunk! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Potomacpupsmom Posted September 11, 2020 Share Posted September 11, 2020 Welcome back Nadine. Sending for your continued recovery. I am so sorry about Andy He was such a memorable boy. Congratulations and welcome home to Abu! Such a handsome boy! Quote Humans Kathy and Jim with our girls, Ivy (Carolina Spoon) and Cherry (Fly Cherry Pie) Missing our beautiful angel Breeze (Dighton Breeze) and angel Beka (BM Beko) - you are forever in our hearts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
racindog Posted September 11, 2020 Share Posted September 11, 2020 Good to hear from you again! Abu is simply...STUNNING! No doubt about it- he picked you. You are blessed. And BTW your English is perfect! Looking forward to hearing about Abu's new adventures. We love you both. Keep in touch. And don't be surprised if Andy sends you a message to let you know all is well with him. They often do that. One common way is that a lot of times a dog we currently have will allow the departed one to 'use' him to let you know by the living dog exhibiting behaviors etc. that are common to the departed ones. If Andy does you will know immediately because you will recognize his energy. It is very real and very comforting and happens quite a bit so if it happens just savor it. The departed ones can send rainbows, or butterflies, or feathers or do any number of amazing and 'unexplainable' things that you will recognize. You can tell from the pictures that Abu is strong and kind. He will be good for you-and you, for him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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