dante2zoe Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I am so very sorry. So much, in so little time. I am in awe of your resiliency. I hope your new foster-girlie helps you as much as you will help her. Quote Cindy with Miss Fancypants, Paris Bueller, Zeke, and Angus Dante (Dg's Boyd), Zoe (In a While), Brady (Devilish Effect), Goose (BG Shotgun), Maverick (BG ShoMe), Maggie (All Trades Jax), Sherman (LNB Herman Bad) and Indy (BYB whippet) forever in my heart The flame that burns the brightest, burns the fastest and leaves the biggest shadow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remolacha Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 That horrible, punched in the gut feeling, that they really are gone, for real, and never coming back, I think in some ways is worse than when you first loose them. But, as Xan said, this is the worst you will feel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greytpups Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Words cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your losses. But a sweet little grey needs a home, and although your heart may feel broken beyond belief, here's hoping this innocent grey will help you heal. Cherish the memory of BooBoo my finding another grey a forever home. Quote Jan with precious pups Emmy (Stormin J Flag) and Simon (Nitro Si) and Abbey Field. Missing my angels: Bailey Buffetbobleclair 11/11/98-17/12/09; Ben Task Rapid Wave 5/5/02-2/11/15; Brooke Glo's Destroyer 7/09/06-21/06/16 and Katie Crazykatiebug 12/11/06 -21/08/21. My blog about grief The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not get over the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same, nor would you want to. ― Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burpdog Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Thank you BooBoo for being MY little care taker. You came into my life when I so desperately needed you and left too soon. Watch over me little angel. She is very close and you will feel her.... Quote Diane & The Senior Gang Burpdog Biscuits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BooBooMama Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Thanks everyone. I have been a slobbering idiot since I picked up her ashes. She was such a sweetheart. All my neighbors cried, my oncologist got all teary-eyed when he found out, people keep calling to tell me how much they will miss her- she had such a presence. I must keep telling myself that she is fine and I need to cherish her memory and not grieve so much. I guess I am not ready yet to let go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LindsaySF Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Picking up the ashes does have a sort of finality to it all. It's not real until you bring them back home that final time. :grouphug Thank you for fostering. You are honoring her memory in that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetdogs Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I am so very sorry for your loss. The only bright spot is that BooBoo was such a fortunate girl to be so loved. And when you're loved so much, your loss is so much harder to bear. Her love will always be with you - she will remain a part of you forever. Godspeed BooBoo! Quote Deirdre with Conor (Daring Pocobueno), Keeva (Kiowa Mimi Mona), & kittehs Gemma & robthomas. Our beloved angels Faolin & Liath, & kittehs Mona & Caesar. Remembering Bobby, Doc McCoy, & Chip McGrath. "He feeds you, pets you, adores you, collects your poop in a bag. There's only one explanation: you are a hairy little god." Nick Galifinakis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dramaqueen Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Life seems so cruel sometimes one bad thing after another but we get the strength to carry on. I look at my kobi's ashes everyday and dust the urn with care.it's been 4 yrs now and my Ruby helps & is the second love of my life besides my kids. We have to remember all the good times and smile & carry on & keep all the secrets locked in our heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bigbrindlebunny Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 So many hard things all at once... There are no words. I hope your new foster brings you love, and some respite from what you've endured. You're amazing, most people would have totally folded. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Houndtime Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 E-Hospital called- they had her ashes. I think this is the hardest part. I put off picking up Brandy's ashes for two weeks. I know how you feel and am just sending warm hugs yours. I hope you life starts moving towards the positive now. Quote Irene Ullmann w/Flying Odin and Mama Mia in Lower Delaware Angels Brandy, John E, American Idol, Paul, Fuzzy and Shine Handcrafted Greyhound and Custom Clocks http://www.houndtime.com Zoom Doggies-Racing Coats for Racing Greyhounds Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iluvgreys Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Your baby girl will always be with you, in your heart, watching over you from the Bridge. Quote Jeanne with Remington & Scooter the cat....and Beloved Bridge Angels Sandee, Shari, Wells, Derby, Phoenix, Jerry Lee and Finnian.....If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heavenand bring you home again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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FiveRoooooers Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I am so sorry. Your pain is so evident. You have been incredibly strong throughout everything that's been handed to you. That strength will help you to go on. Fostering is a good next step! It's cliche and everything else, but truly, time will help ease your pain. Take good care of yourself. Quote Old Dogs are the Best Dogs. Thank you, campers. Current enrollees: Punkin. AnnIE Oooh M Angels: Pal . Segugio. Sorella (TPGIT). LadyBug. Zeke-aroni. MiMi Sizzle Pants. Gracie. Seamie . (Foster)Sweet. Andy. PaddyALVIN!Mayhem. Bosco. Bruno. Dottie B. Trevor Double-Heart. Bea. Cletus, KLTO. Aiden 1-4. Upon reflection, our lives are often referenced in parts defined by the all-too-short lives of our dogs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3greys2cats Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I am so sorry for all of the pain and losses in your life, only time will lessen that pain. I think it is wonderful of you to foster and honor BooBoo's memory. Quote Roberta & Michael with Furkids- Flower (Shasta Flowers 6/7/06) & Rascal the kitty - Missing our sweet angels - Max(M's Mad Max) 10/12/02 - 12/3/15, Sara (Sara Raves 6/30/01 - 4/13/12) Queenie & Pandora the kitties - gone but never forgotten Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BellesDad Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 So sorry for your loss. Godspeed Booboo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ullaluv Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I am so sorry for ALL your losses. Your girl is with you, watching over you. She will always be there, watching over you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carronstar Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 My heart hurts for you. Run free, BooBoo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cully Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 Run free sweet baby. Quote waiting at the bridge Connie Van Teddy & Jojo, Cobra Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerilyn Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 My sympathies for the loss of your BooBoo and your mom. May you find comfort in their memories. Quote Jerilyn, missing Lila (Good Looking), new Mistress to Wiki (PJ Wicked). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fini Posted April 30, 2010 Share Posted April 30, 2010 I'm so sorry. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GreyPoopon Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 I'm so very sorry. Godspeed BooBoo. Quote Standard Poodle Daisy (12/13) Missing Cora (RL Nevada 5/99-10/09), Piper (Cee Bar Easy 2/99-1/10), Tally (Thunder La La 9/99-3/10), Edie (Daring Reva 9/99-10/12), Dixie (Kiowa Secret Sue 11/01-1/13), Jessie (P's Real Time 11/98-3/13), token boy Graham (Zydeco Dancer 9/00-5/13), Cal (Back Already 12/99-11/13), Betsy (Back Kick Beth 11/98-12/13), Standard Poodles Minnie (1/99-1/14) + Perry (9/98-2/14), Annie (Do Marcia 9/03-10/14), Pink (Miss Pinky Baker 1/02-6/15), Poppy (Cmon Err Not 8/05-1/16), Kat (Jax Candy 5/05-5/17), Ivy (Jax Isis 10/07-7/21), Hildy (Braska Hildy 7/10-12/22), Opal (Jax Opal 7/08-4/23). Toodles (BL Toodles 7/09-4/24) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Gingergrey Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 So sorry for this great loss that you have to endure. Hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest vahoundlover Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 I am so sorry My heart goes out to you, you've been through so much. Godspeed Sweetheart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
45MPHK9 Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 we are so sorry for your loss. take care of yourself. Quote Tricia with Kyle, our senior mutt dog Always missing Murray Maldives, Bee Wiseman, River, Hopper, Kaia, and Holly Oaks Holly“You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows.“ -Bob Dylan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 I'm so sorry. Quote ...............Chase (FTH Smooth Talker), Morgan (Cata), Reggie (Gable Caney), Rufus (Reward RJ). Fosters check in, but they don't check out. Forever loved -- Cosmo (System Br Mynoel), March 11, 2002 - October 8, 2009.Miss Cosmo was a lady. And a lady always knows when to leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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