I'm hoping someone can help me with my 12-1/2 year old greyhound Leo. I've had him since he was 1-1/2. He has had a multitude of health issues over the years, and he now has arthritis, disc issues, hypothyroidism, mitral valve disease and some weakness and neuropathy in his back legs. I started taking him to PT about three months ago since he became unable to climb the stairs to my bedroom and started struggling during walks. The journey's been up and down and all around. The PT vet is amazing, and he's had adjustments and acupuncture and shock therapy, and I am able to do TENS treatments now from home. They tried the water treadmill last week and he was unable to use his back legs at all. Now he's got feeling back so the treatments are much more conservative, with mobility and other manual strength exercises.
I love him, of course, but he is challenging many ways. He's very needy and barks if I'm out of his sight for too long...like five-ten minutes. (Unless he's asleep, or, strangely, left completely alone in the house.) So, at night I have been sleeping downstairs with him on the couch or on a roll out bed on the floor. He also needs to go out in the middle of the night to pee and/or poop 9 nights out of ten, usually about 11:30 and then again at 4-5 am. So, it also just makes sense to stay downstairs since we'll need to go out anyway.
I cannot keep this up. And I can only afford his care, of course, if I keep working, but I may not be able to keep working if I keep this up. I have him because although my ex-husband wanted him, he bonded to me, and I was willing and able to care for him. I am trying my best to care for him and do his daily exercises, but I also work full-time from home, and between taking him out 6-9 times a day, feeding him by hand due to his cervical issues, and all of the other Leo-related tasks (including driving him to and from PT once a week) I'm losing it. I'm basically a wreck, between body pain from sleeping on the couch/floor and extreme fatigue from never sleeping through the night.
He's on of drugs and supplements of course: gabapentin and l-thyroxine and enalapril and trazodone just to name a few. (Though I'm starting to reduce trazodone because although it knocks him out, which is wonderful, when he's awake he's unsteady and unable to walk.)
Another hitch to all of this is that I have a roommate, so I can't just let him bark at night while I sleep in my bed and am hesitant to leave him alone because if she's home he'll bark constantly. I have no idea how all of this will play out and am looking for advice and information from those with more experience. I know that he can die suddenly from something unexpected, but he can also go on for years. What will those years be like, especially if he's losing feeling in his back legs and is having trouble walking? As most of you may know, it's hard to get much time with your vet to have this kind of conversation post-covid. If there's someone else I should talk to, or something else I can read, please let me know. Thanks for any help you can provide!