Hi! I am reaching out regarding my newly-adopted, 2-year-old grey, Pharaoh. My SO and I have had him for about three weeks and so far, he has adjusted very well (super friendly with other dogs and people, no separation anxiety *so far*, a good appetite, non-destructive, a happy demeanor, etc.). We adore him (see attached, what a cutie). However, while he has become comfortable joining us on the living room couch and on our bed, he has recently demonstrated that he does not like to share the space. The first time we noticed this behavior, Pharaoh had laid down next to me on the couch (head facing me), and I began to pet him behind his ears (his favorite) when he swiftly lifted his head and emitted a growl in my direction. Before I could decide what to do, he removed himself from the couch and went to his crate. Then, a few days ago, while laying at the foot of my bed, Pharaoh similarly growled when I stretched my legs toward him. There have been other instances, all involving the shared space of the couch or my bed. When this happens, I am unsure as to whether I need to yield the space or revoke couch / bed privileges. I want Pharaoh to become comfortable with us as and really don't want to cause any feelings of mistrust, fear, or harm.
Two interesting points:
1) He has never growled at me when I pet him or approach him while he is laying on his OWN bed(s) - the bed in his crate and the bed we have provided for him in the living room next to the couch. On the contrary, he seems to enjoy pets and belly rubs while in these spaces.
2) He has been wide awake each time this has happened - never asleep.
What is the best course of action? It is early and I know that it will take time for him to become truly comfortable with us, but I want to reach out while this is new. I want to respect Pharaoh's space and share, but also be assertive of my own space. I previously owned a grey (sadly passed away two years ago) who was the biggest snuggler from day one and wanted to share all the spaces - never exhibited any kind of aggression - so I feel inexperienced with this sort of behavior. Any advice is appreciated, thank you all so much!
