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  1. Sorry please don't misunderstand me. I know my post I might come across as a person who's wanting to know why their hound hasn't assimilated quickly into home life and why they're not 'perfect' as advertised etc... which isn't the case at all. By issues and problems I definitely don't mean that it's HIS fault - poor choice of wording there. We've been in contact with the adoption agency and are in regular contact with the person who fostered him and have heard bits about how he was how he was pre-adoption (from somebody who knows his trainer) and know that he's always been a bit of a shy dog and unsure of new things so we have been trying to take that in mind and being patient and understanding..it's definitely been a learning curve for us. We're keeping him off our stairs during the day as our stairs are tiny and he literally takes up the whole space of the landing when he lies down...so if we were going up and down the stairs we were stepping in the space between his legs to get down - we didn't think it was nice to be invading his personal space every time we used the stairs especially since we're still building up his trust. In terms of barking etc, we just wanted to know what it was so that we could look at ways he wouldn't get so stressed out/upset. Thanks for your advice!
  2. Jimmy is our first dog ever and we've had him a little over a month now. He's a bit of a spook and initially we had quite a few issues in terms of him being too scared to go outside to pee etc. Although he's still easily spooked outside the house and with unfamiliar things, we've had some success with adaptil and he's become more confident inside the house. One problem we DID NOT have since Jimmy's been home with us is separation anxiety. From day 1 he was happy sleeping downstairs in his crate (door always open) and was fine with us leaving him at home by himself while we went to work etc. My husband and I have been at home for the past two weeks over the holiday period and during this time Jimmy has opened up a lot more - he's mastered the stairs (to the point where I'm terrified he'll hurt himself because he just races up and down), he's no longer staying in his crate all the time and he is actually interested in knowing which part of the house we are at. Since Jimmy has been confident enough to go upstairs, he's taken a particular liking to the landing of our stairs and will sleep there all afternoon if he could. He will lie down and take up the whole space... which wouldn't be an issue except that Jimmy also has sleep startle which makes it difficult for us to navigate up and down the stairs (our house isn't very big at all). Initially we were pretty happy that Jimmy was comfortable in another part of the house and let him sleep there - but we decided that this wasn't a good idea as we were constantly waking Jimmy up to pass by, and at times he would not be fully awake and would growl or bark. Since yesterday we've placed a barrier at the bottom of the stairs so that Jimmy can't come upstairs during the day. He has no problem staying downstairs... so long as somebody is downstairs with him. If both my husband and I are upstairs, Jimmy will whine and bark like anything. We tried to ignore his whining and barking and waited until he was quiet before one of us went down to him..but we found out he had peed inside the house during the 10 minutes we left him downstairs (he had just gone for a walk 2 hours prior so we think this is stress related..and no UTI). We thought that Jimmy was starting to develop separation anxiety as he was getting attached to us and because we were around all the time over the holiday period...but the strange thing is that if Jimmy is upstairs he literally does not care if both of us are downstairs. He will happily sleep and only come downstairs if he hears the car keys because he thinks that we are going for a drive or we get him downstairs to let him out to pee. He appears to be happy downstairs on his own when both my husband and I leave the house. After the peeing/barking/whining incident, my husband and I left the house to see how Jimmy would react when we were gone. I got my husband to drive the car out of the driveway while I sneaked around the back of the house to see if Jimmy was getting anxious etc. After looking at the door for a minute or so, Jimmy went into his crate and lay there - no whining, no barking. So we're a little confused as to what the whining/barking and peeing is - whether it's related to separation anxiety (and whether this has the potential to get worse if we don't address it) or if it's just him really wanting to go up the stairs? I should add, we do let him come upstairs at night - he's sleeping on the landing at the moment, but last night he was happy sleeping downstairs. Should we be more consistent and not let him go upstairs at all?
  3. Thank you I'll try the leash again. Whenever I clip the leash on he'll just look at me and just lie in his crate. I've tried tugging a little which doesn't do anything. If anything he's more determined to stay in his crate. I suppose I'll be a bit more patient and wait until he does eventually get out of his crate and then praise praise praise. He'll go out no problem first thing in the morning now, but maybe I should clip him on the leash so he gets the idea. I will definitely try the harness once Jimmy is a little bit more confident to try walking again! Thank you for sharing your experience. Your post has really given me a lot of reassurance and I do hope that I see the same for Jimmy as well. Jimmy supposedly loves car rides as well! We'll definitely try to drive him to quieter areas (we also live near a busy road which doesn't help!) to walk once we can convince Jimmy to get into our car.
  4. Thank you! Yes I re-read what I wrote and I do think I need to just breathe. I think it helped just typing all the things that were worrying me and putting it out on the interwebs! We'll make sure my husband continues to give him those high value treats! How does Ryder do when he's on walks outside? Does he statue a lot when he hears something that startles him? That's so reassuring to know. At the moment Jimmy is averaging 16 hours as well. Jimmy's problem is actually getting him physically outside to do his business. Once he decides that it's safe outside he has no problem going. A few sniffs and he's done. My husband and I joke that the times he feels a little more confident, he actually lifts a leg to go but most of the time he does it without raising a leg as well. He seems pretty spooked by whatever is out in the backyard during the day - likely the construction noises - he'll make it half way to the door, stare outside for ages and then go back to his crate. He has little or no trouble getting out in the mornings now, in fact this morning he didn't need much convincing at all and just trotted out!
  5. Fair bit of warning, this is quite a long post. We adopted our boy Jimmy five days ago. He is our first greyhound and first dog ever. We were told he initially presented as a fearful dog and was shy with humans. He's had two weeks at a foster home where he gained confidence to interact with people and play ball and rope games. He's definitely a shy boy - he spends the entire time in his crate - even though the door is open all the time - which we don't mind as we know hope he'll come out eventually when he's comfortable. I've taken the week off work because from the research we did prior to adopting Jimmy we were expecting to deal with separation anxiety - which isn't the case. He seems fine when we leave him - he doesn't whine and he doesn't bark and we haven't heard anything from our neighbours. Prior to adopting Jimmy I thought I had done a lot of research, I read books, articles, browsed this form and watched extensive youtube videos on other people's experience in adopting greyhounds etc and to be honest while we were expecting the hound to be shy and wary for the adjustment period I didn't come across anything about greyhounds not leaving their crate etc and dealing with a greyhound that is so easily scared by everything. Jimmy is very sensitive to noises and there are a lot of noises around our house especially during the day. We live in a series of terraced houses in a new housing development so there are new houses still being built around us - which means there's a lot of construction noises during the day. We also live near an airbase so there's the sound of small planes from time to time - not to mention the sounds of the neighbor's comings and goings, children playing with there ball (every afternoon) etc. When Jimmy is at home by himself for a few hours, I'll put relaxing music videos on from youtube to mask some of the sounds- although I'm not sure if this works. If I'm at home I turn the music off and I pass by his crate and there his ears are up because of noises and he's panting, I'll toss in a treat and say something reassuring. He's much more relaxed in the early mornings when there is very minimal/no noise and needs less coaxing to come out of the crate to do his business. In fact this morning he just needed a 'come on Jimmy' and a few words of reassurance before he followed me out of the house with no edible treats required. Will he eventually get used to these sounds? Obviously the construction work is not going to go on forever, but it will be a few months and It eats me up that he's in a constant state of anxiousness because of the environment we brought him into. Am I doing right in turning on the relaxing dog music when he's at home by himself to mask those noises - or will this mean he will never get used to those sounds? Yesterday in the evening my husband and I were cooking dinner so there were a lot of noises which were louder than what he was used to and (we think) he sort of shut down and refused to leave his crate to go out at 9 pm for his evening potty break. It made me quite upset as when we think he's made some progress he's actually regressed and has gone the other way. It's like one step forward, two steps back. Potty breaks were a source of stress for me the past few days as Jimmy was holding his pee in for up to 15 hours at a time and he kept on licking his privates which I notice he does when he starts to hold on for a long time and it really upsets me knowing he needs to go but his fear is preventing him from going outside (I don't think he has a UTI as there seems to be no hesitancy is peeing when he does finally get outside, nor does he seem in pain when he does pee and he doesn't go in the house). I understand that greyhounds can have bladders of steel and can hold it for ages, but I'm scared that health-wise something might happen if Jimmy keeps on holding it in (he's a very tidy boy as per his foster and he hasn't he won't go in the house). As I write this down, I realise that I'm probably being overly anxious, and maybe I'm wrong in thinking that the licking is NOT due to the fact that he needs to go. But when in the moment, all logic goes out the window and I make decisions that I wish I hadn't done in hindsight. When we first got Jimmy, he initially would wag his tail and come out easily of his crate when we put his leash on. When we explored the house initially (with his leash on) he walked up the stairs and down the stairs no problem. He managed a short walk the following morning when we got him again, no problem. We managed to get him outside 3 times easily with the leash. But then because we had read that we needed to toilet Jimmy every two to three hours for the first day or so, I got Jimmy out one time despite the fact that he had shown some resistance (really stupid I know, and I regret this a hundred percent) - possibly because of some noise outside - and since then he has refused to come out of the crate when we clip him with the leash . That evening he had held his bladder for more than 12 hours and out of desperation we tried to get him out of his crate but he dug his heels in (mistake number two). We regretted this straight afterwards. Since the first two days we're a little wiser - we use a lot of treats and no physical persuasion to get him out of the crate to encourage to go outside to pee for the evening (this process takes approximately an hour which stresses me out although I try not to show it when I'm with Jimmy and use lots of encouragement etc). We have made the mistake of taking him out on walks before he was ready in an attempt for him to go outside to pee - Jimmy was coming out of the crate but refusing to go the backyard and it had been 15 hours at that point, he agreed to be leashed and followed us out through the front door where he peed, walked a little but then got spooked by something and he dragged his leash back to the house with his tail between his legs (big mistake again). I just feel that we keep on making these mistakes which seem like a good idea/out of desperation to get Jimmy to pee and that an experienced owner would not have made these mistakes and we are inadvertently traumatising our dog and making him an even more fearful and shy. When Jimmy makes little steps forward (like yesterday he spent a little longer outside his crate and followed me to the foot of the stairs) I think - 'we just need time and patience' - however when we make silly mistakes like the above I think 'an experienced owner would not have made that mistake and Jimmy would probably do so much better with somebody else'. My husband is much more relaxed about this whereas this whole situation is stressing me out - and is probably just more because of my personality more than anything. Anyway with that rant outside, my questions are: Should we not be encouraging Jimmy to come out to pee and wait for him to tell us? (But at the same time we also want to establish a routine, we have been trying to take him out at 9 pm). We take him out at 5 30 am, he's only come out to pee once midday in the five days we've had him and we try to take him out at 9 pm - but it takes an hour to coax him out. Or do we wait for him to tell us, then associate the action with the phrase 'let's go potty' and then after a while try to establish a routine for those times? My main concern is when I go to work next week - I only work 3 days a week so the plan was for my mum who lives near by to let Jimmy out once in the afternoon, but at this stage I don't see this happening. I can't get him out myself, and I don't think he'd come out for my mum at this stage (I brought her over yesterday and got her to give him treats so he'd get used to her...). Do I get her to come in when I go to work just to give him treats and then leave again? Jimmy is not used to men as per the foster and is wary for a few times and then okay. Apparently Jimmy is a lady's man. My husband has been working during the week while I've been at home with him. Jimmy will take treats from my husband's hand while in his crate, but is a little nervous of him. I've encouraged my husband to come out in the garden with me in the mornings when Jimmy feels a little more confident and yesterday Jimmy went up to my husband as he threw the ball for him. I've also asked my husband to give Jimmy his meals (although Jimmy won't come out of his crate to eat unless I'm there as well). Should I be staying away completely and let Jimmy spend time with my husband e.g. don't come down until Jimmy feels comfortable eating his dinner in my husband's presence - obviously with my husband doing something else and not standing over the food? I'm getting my husband to give Jimmy all the good treats and I've stopped giving him as many and have chosen to pet him when I pass the crate. Once Jimmy is a little more comfortable with us (hopefully) is there a chance that he may exhibit signs of separation anxiety? Late last night Jimmy seemed a little more confident and followed me around the house a bit more and explored the living room. When I turned off the lights and did the normal night routine, when I went upstairs for bed he whined. I thought he might need to be let out to go to the toilet so I came back downstairs to let him out but he wasn't interested in going out and instead just came up to me and wagged his tail a bit and he sort of seemed like he wanted to explore the house more. I didn't comply, I gave him a pat and went upstairs and he whined again but I ignored him in case he thought that whining meant I'd be coming down each time and he eventually settled after 10 to 15 minutes or so. Is this going to intensify as he gets over his shyness? Also as per the books etc I know we're supposed to ignore Jimmy until he feels comfortable coming out to us, and we did (sort of) the first few days except to maybe pet him and give him a treat to show that everything was okay. To be honest, it's definitely hard to fight the urge to ignore him when we want to comfort and pet him (despite knowing tin our head hat this doesn't do anything to alleviate his anxiety). Jimmy seems a little more comfortable now and doesn't pant or breathe heavily. My husband will go up to the crate, call out Jimmy's name give him a treat and a pat or so and then leave him. I'll come by and pat him - he makes eye contact and sometimes he rearranges himself into a more comfortable position and he'll even rest his head against my hand. I've taken it to think that he doesn't mind me coming up to his crate and petting him? Or am I wrong and totally reading him wrong and I should leave him until he comes out to me? When he pants, looks away or avoids eye contact we give him space and maybe throw in a treat with a reassuring voice and leave him be - but is this okay? Or are we affirming the fact that it's okay to be fearful/anxious of whatever he's anxious about by giving him treats and should we just leave him alone? I've been reading up on "spooky" greyhounds. From the above, does Jimmy seem to be one? Or is this just part of the normal greyhound adjustment period and he's just a little on the shy side and I'm reading too much into things? Sorry for the long post. I just want to know if we are on the right track. From, A very anxious and inexperienced owner first time owner.
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