I agree with those who say to reach out to the neighbors. Also, I would go farther than saying your dog is new and has anxiety. I would try to explain in detail what is happening, and what you're doing to help him through his anxiety. I would not ditch the crate if he hasn't shown that he knows the proper way to behave loose in the house. He will get there, but he probably needs more time.
Good luck
I pour water on the kibble, then drain the water so all that's left is moist kibble. He still inhales it, but it's now lubed for safety.
I've seen several posters here comment about how helpful the break fast bowl has been for their greys. I like the cookie sheet idea - I may have to try that one!
I don't know who Bootsy's parents are, so it wouldn't be useful to me anyway. I know my pets are going to die before I do, so whatever takes them, takes them. I hope it is simply old age, but it may not be.
I have heard here that ace doesn't really help them relax - their minds can still go a mile a minute, but their bodies won't cooperate, so the anxiety is actually heightened.
Many folks on here have had good luck with melatonin.
I used to think coats were more for people than the dogs. Then Bootsy made it clear to me that he gets cold. So I bought him a nice fleece. He even sleeps in it sometimes. But Argos never wore a coat.
I have a 3 year old. He was a newborn when we lost our first grey, and only 2 months old when we adopted Bootsy. Just like everything else in parenting, you teach limits and give structure and guidelines, and everyone is fine.
What a gift, to have that glorious weekend at Dewey with Bee, before you had to say goodbye. I'm so very sorry for this terrible loss. Your tribute so clearly comes from your heart. Bee was one in a million.
She is remembered, and she always will be.
Argos ran a lot, and frequently had little nicks on his legs. Bootsy doesn't romp as often, so it's less frequent, but he does get them, even when he didn't run into anything or go through bushes. Curiouser and curiouser